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It took me so long to take my destiny into my own hands...say enough
Now I am in charge.....it brought me tothe best of my life......you are strong and have pride...I know you can take control......if one little thing doesn't feel right....don't go ahead. I didn't wouldn't listen to that voice for too long. I wish for you to be happy. I really do.
posted by
Kabu
on March 27, 2010 at 8:09 PM
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it seems like a lesson of forgiveness
posted by
dsm_tchr
on March 27, 2010 at 7:37 PM
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A lot of people are dealing with these themes as we speak. You are not alone.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on March 27, 2010 at 5:34 PM
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There is a saying in Spain that goes " Cuentas claras y el chocolate a la Espanola" Translated it says: Clear accounts and chocolate Spanish style... which makes not a lot of sense. loll... In slang it means that business is business not social niceties... You should consider that betrayal not a loss but a lesson... whatever it costs you is what you have paid for that lesson that is an important one and in the future, when you are to conduct business with anyone, friend , family or stranger... put it in writing! Unfortunately the world has changed and now a days what is not written does not exist. Be well darling and don't worry, who ever that is that hurt you will get his or hers because there is karma in this world ... xoxoxo
posted by
Sinome
on March 27, 2010 at 3:47 PM
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I am honored to received such inspirational words of wisdom
from my wonderful blogit family, I must say I can't ask for anything more. However, from what I learned today, from you guys, no matter what you do, my love will flow, as the river of life.
posted by
Tzippy
on March 27, 2010 at 1:57 PM
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Trust
first of all TZIPPY sorry I cannot remember words. I am pleased that you liked the story, the trouble was that I was writing it later and later and that's no way to continue. All the fairies are still there and I will probably have the privilege of following there adventures later.
Now TZIPPY, I imagine you to be a girl with a melting smile, who previously could see no wrong in anyone. This might give the impression that you can be manipulated.
It might suddenly be a shock to someone who believes this.
We all pay by experience, no kidding.
You are a live human being who has opinions and talent, and I hope you will be a bit tougher from now on, look how many people get divorced, the wise one's, (which should not be a problem if one makes a commitment) have an agreement. People change it is human nature, sometimes it is into a lovely scenario which I sincerely wish will happen to you. 
posted by
C_C_T
on March 27, 2010 at 1:34 PM
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I'm slow on the uptake, I guess.
I don't understand if the one who disappointed you was involved on a strictly personal level, or if it had to do with work obligations. Either one is an emotional letdown, but somehow when it comes to the workplace, someone's betrayal or not following through is more expected. And I think it hurts more if it's personal.
All I can say is after it happens, the next time I don't invest as much and I'm more watchful for signs of deception. Too bad it takes such lessons to make your BS detector work.
posted by
Pat_B
on March 27, 2010 at 1:03 PM
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By chance I received these words the other day at a time when i was het up
about a friend letting me down on something. "Anger is a statement that says, I disapprove and I'm trying to control somebody else. Accept people for what they are and for what they do. This helps to free you from anger. If there is a lack of acceptance then I move into resistance and that is the seed of my anger. "
If the anger is let go then it''s possible for interaction with the other person
"Just remember the evidence of your life, that everything comes and goes. This is called the river of life. The moment you grab onto something then you are inviting sadness/pain because the universe will come and take it away. Keep saying to yourself that the river must flow. Don't hold onto anything. The moment you hold onto something, you lose your freedom to what you're holding onto. You're stuck at that moment because you are not allowing energy to flow. " We need to keep moving.
There's more. I'll try to do a post.
posted by
Azur
on March 27, 2010 at 11:48 AM
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I like to be taken at my word for I fulfill what I say! But, there are many who want to be taken at their word without following through! In the future, I would put pen to paper!
Regarding my posts, the back story is so crucial to where I am at this point in time that I must take everyone through it because the events will add up in a few more posts and it will become much clearer. Here is Part 4
And, I hope you have a wonderful Saturday! sam
posted by
sam444
on March 27, 2010 at 10:57 AM
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in my day it was normal to be able to trust people, now I have brought that trust with me and have been sorry I did
posted by
Lanetay
on March 27, 2010 at 9:12 AM
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