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I read this yesterday...
thought about it, and couldn't make up my mind. I still can't...so I'd say whatever he did was right, er...wrong...er...right...
posted by
Nautikos
on April 20, 2008 at 6:03 PM
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Vogue, I think he did right by not mentioning the 1st wife.
It would have slighted the 2nd wife.
posted by
whirlwindaffair
on April 20, 2008 at 7:17 AM
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I don't think he needed to say anything
His feelings about her are for him. The relatives were at a birthday party for him. It is nice that he still has the connection with them. They all know the connection they share.
posted by
Azur
on April 20, 2008 at 1:31 AM
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he should have my dear...but i believe though that it must have been a tough situation for him too...
posted by
__Purple_Mermaid11__
on April 19, 2008 at 8:36 PM
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I would have wished he said something....even just a couple sentences about his 1st wife.
posted by
ZenMom
on April 19, 2008 at 6:20 PM
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I agree with what he did.
Mentioning wife #1, would have been only for the benefit of the 10 people
who already knew too well how he felt about her. He still has his life to live
once those ten have left the party. Just my opinion. 
posted by
CRShelley
on April 19, 2008 at 6:10 PM
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I would have mentioned her...
...and would have prepared wife#2 before-hand. He may have done that and wifey#2 might have said no. Even though I find that hard to swallow. Definitely a judgement call.
posted by
metalrat
on April 19, 2008 at 5:46 PM
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I would like to have seen a mention as well. sam
posted by
sam444
on April 19, 2008 at 5:12 PM
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Hmmmm. Definitely a sticky situation.
posted by
Kolekshuns
on April 19, 2008 at 5:09 PM
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