About me…. My history is that of a co-dependant, oldest child, abused, and neglected. As a child I was neglected by my parents, as an adult I neglected myself. I always tried hard to be a great wife and Mother. I never felt appreciated by my husband or my family. I thought that my children appreciated me, but they just needed me. My ex-husband said he didn’t need me and I felt that he never appreciated me. I didn’t want him to need me. Yet he depended on me for everything. No matter what I said... Sign in to see full entry.