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Re: C.C.T.
They are totally wrong.....unless you are hiding it from us.
posted by
TAPS.
on May 6, 2026 at 5:00 PM
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Me not so good either.
posted by
adnohr
on May 6, 2026 at 3:37 PM
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Well no one asks me for advice they think I AM SENILE.🌺
posted by
C_C_T
on May 6, 2026 at 12:25 PM
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Re: Sherri.....
LOL Sherri.....everyone is different. I take after my Dad in that line of thought.... He never took, or asked for advice. He was taught to think for himself....and he did a good job of it.
posted by
TAPS.
on May 6, 2026 at 10:38 AM
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It boggles my mind that people think they can just say and do what they want with other people. It's like a form of bullying for me. When I am approached by a bully I remain silent, if they persist I simply say that I am so sorry they were never loved or nurtured. If they would have been they would treat others with kindness. LolÂ
posted by
sam444
on May 6, 2026 at 10:15 AM
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Duly noted. I have been guilty of giving unsolicited advice when someone writes about their troubles. I guess my thought process is that they are not only venting, but they are hoping for a solution. On the other hand, I appreciate advice when I have hit a brick wall and have no answer to my issue.
posted by
Sherri_G
on May 6, 2026 at 8:39 AM
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I am not keen on unsolicited advice either. I also do not give it. If I wanted advice, I'd ask for it.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on May 6, 2026 at 7:49 AM
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