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I'm so sorry she is going through this. It's very traumatic, humilating and embarrassing. My exes did that and I feel for her. Hugs to her.

posted by Annicita on November 6, 2021 at 6:04 PM | link to this | reply

I lived through No 2 of her nightmares, the one she is still in for 20 years. it is dangerous beyond words. Wiley helped me to heal the wounds so much but the scars always remain

posted by Kabu on November 3, 2021 at 4:05 PM | link to this | reply

Have been there. I hope she at least has pepper spray on her at all times and, sad to say, if the laws permit it in the state where she lives, get a gun and practice using it. Authorities just don't do enough until it's too late in so many cases. Better him than her.

posted by adnohr on November 3, 2021 at 3:35 PM | link to this | reply

What a disguster he is! And a dangerous disguster, at that. There are literally no words, or rather, not enough words, for someone like him. I don't blame you for being angry. Who wouldn't be? I hope this can get resolved.

posted by Sea_Gypsy on November 3, 2021 at 3:25 PM | link to this | reply

Good afternoon

That's no way for her to live. What a shame that these men prey on women and oftentimes go without punishment, moving from one victim to the next. He does need the ass-kicking that his mama never gave him. 

posted by Sherri_G on November 3, 2021 at 12:21 PM | link to this | reply

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Pat, don't worry!  It will all work out.  I can't believe this is taking place.  It's a nightmare.

posted by Goldiec on November 3, 2021 at 9:41 AM | link to this | reply

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Yup. Thanks for your prayers. I just wish I were able-bodied enough to be useful in this situation. 

posted by Pat_B on November 3, 2021 at 9:18 AM | link to this | reply

Good Morning

Pat, Oh my!  I feel so bad that your granddaughter is going through this.  This man is very dangerous.  I think I feel like you and would want to go and stay with her for a while.  This guy's behavior is not normal.  I'm not sure what the best plan is.  The problem with sending people like this man papers is the fact that they will not honor what is on the documents.  They will throw them away and just increase their tactics.  A young girl will have a very hard time with all of this.  I'm going to pray for your granddaughter.  This is a bad situation.  In a perfect world, I'd say she should move away or maybe stay with you for a while.  You have no idea how upset this makes me. I think you and I could handle this because we've seen a lot in life but your granddaughter is so young.  People like this guy do not scare me.  Once I'm good and mad he should prepare himself for hell.

posted by Goldiec on November 3, 2021 at 8:20 AM | link to this | reply

I suppose in the old days one of the benefits was that one more or less knew every family by recognition or rumour. Poor girl to have to go through all this, I suppose a good many smoked once, but most never dreamed of taking drugs. 

posted by C_C_T on November 3, 2021 at 7:55 AM | link to this | reply