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I don't know you well enough to make that call, but it may be worth exploring. I suggest this to people who have had particularly emotionally abusive parents.

posted by Ciel on March 1, 2017 at 11:02 PM | link to this | reply

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You think I suffer from that?

posted by Annicita on March 1, 2017 at 7:09 PM | link to this | reply

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posted by Annicita on March 1, 2017 at 7:06 PM | link to this | reply

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Yes it's a thin scar like a crown on the fingertip

posted by Annicita on March 1, 2017 at 7:05 PM | link to this | reply

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I wish some of these bad memories would

posted by Annicita on March 1, 2017 at 7:04 PM | link to this | reply

Clearly, the finger isn't the only scar you bear. Emotional abandonment in childhood affects one's whole life.  If you haven't searched Complex PTSD yet, I highly recommend it. My go-to for that is Pete Walker's site.

posted by Ciel on March 1, 2017 at 5:21 PM | link to this | reply

Yes rather sad for the old man to grumble about a pooper. Good memory though.

posted by C_C_T on March 1, 2017 at 8:51 AM | link to this | reply

Your earliest memory there and the aftermath are very vivid...I see that you also have a physical reminder of it.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on March 1, 2017 at 8:07 AM | link to this | reply

You poor "baby" old memories never leave us.

posted by Chuck_E_Ibrahim on February 28, 2017 at 9:36 PM | link to this | reply

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It's not your fault....he was who he was....

posted by Annicita on February 28, 2017 at 7:30 PM | link to this | reply

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it was his trademark as you know from past memories

posted by Annicita on February 28, 2017 at 7:29 PM | link to this | reply

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well as you have read...i have had much worse

posted by Annicita on February 28, 2017 at 7:25 PM | link to this | reply

I agree with sam and Kabu! Poor you! But it's great that you do remember. Maybe I will also tell my earliest one. Thank you. And I'm sorry your father wasn't kinder to you. 

posted by Sea_Gypsy on February 28, 2017 at 4:25 PM | link to this | reply

The scar tissue would be enough to remind you forever that it happened but what sort of a father always had to talk about it in a way that made it seem as though you had done something wrong.

posted by Kabu on February 28, 2017 at 3:35 PM | link to this | reply

That's a tough first memory! sam 

posted by sam444 on February 28, 2017 at 2:44 PM | link to this | reply