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posted by Kabu on March 25, 2016 at 3:26 PM | link to this | reply

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Yes Kabu, it was awful and painful to find out about the death of friend. Thanks for the concern.

posted by drdianne on March 23, 2016 at 10:09 PM | link to this | reply

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Annicita,

I did not mean to offend anyone. What I mean by regulate yourself is to be forgiving and hang on to your faith. It is easy to forgive for  some and  for others it is not so easy. As for me it is not so easy. My dad was not the perfect man either. My mom has not forgiven him yet and they are in their 80's.  It is so happen that I love my father then and still do. Since we are now having this conversation, I am beginning to think that may be one of the reason that she does not seem to care for me. Also, out of 3 children I am the only one that resembles him. Right about now my Dad is right smack in the middle of Galatians 6:7.

posted by drdianne on March 23, 2016 at 10:06 PM | link to this | reply

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Thank you but I am regulated....I won't shed a tear for a man who made it a sport to see how many women he could cheat on with my mom and then knock up someone I went to high school with and abandon all of us.  He isn't rotting hell but I sure wish he was

posted by Annicita on March 23, 2016 at 5:41 AM | link to this | reply

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thank you for sharing all this. It was just so awful for you to find that your friend was already buried like that.

posted by Kabu on March 21, 2016 at 12:55 PM | link to this | reply

Readers,

I thank you for your views and comments

 

 

 

Be Blessed

Dr. Dianne

posted by drdianne on March 21, 2016 at 4:44 AM | link to this | reply

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Annicita,

I have heard that there is good in everyone, although I have my doubts.  I realize that you may be in pain. I declare if you get rid of the bitterness the pain will go away. It is hard, I have tried it and it works, I feel the better for it. If you are praying, continue to do, it helps too. Galatians 6:7 says, "Whatsoever you reap, you shall sow", this is a true fact. It is many ways a person can reap before they die, sickness,impaired mind, losses of things dear to them etc. As for you, you must get Annicita regulated in the right state of being. 

Be Blessed

Dr.Di

posted by drdianne on March 21, 2016 at 2:31 AM | link to this | reply

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Kabu,

I remember the very first time that I lost a friend girl I started passing out, and I felt hands catching the back of my head. Whenever we did not hear from one another we would called each and fuss. I tried to get her on the telephone for approx. 3 weeks so I went to her house and she did not answer the door. A few days later before I attempted again I picked up the paper and there she was announcing her death and funeral. The day I went over there she was already dead and buried for about 2 weeks. That day I thought I heard her say "just a minute", I said "bring your slow self on", she never came to the door.

I remember crying out to the Lord that I have never lost a friend before. It can be so devastating. I told you this story because I understand how you may feel regarding the loss of friends. I have lost many since. It  does instill in one the fact that if they died we also have to answer the call, no matter if it is cancer or something else.

Be Blessed

Dr, Di

posted by drdianne on March 21, 2016 at 2:16 AM | link to this | reply

My biological dad died little over 2 weeks ago....he was an ass who screwed over his first family and especially his first wife so bad....to this day over 30 years later she still hasn't recovered and refused to ever date or get involved with another man....He doesn't deserve my tears.

posted by Annicita on March 20, 2016 at 9:01 PM | link to this | reply

I have lost virtually all of my girl friends over the years to cancer and now I have reached a time where I won't mind when I die. One has worked through nearly enough grief.

posted by Kabu on March 19, 2016 at 7:52 AM | link to this | reply

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