Go to Calia's Discoveries
- Add a comment
- Go to Oy, Rough Patch
Re: Re: Re: Re: Kabu
posted by
Kabu
on May 2, 2015 at 7:40 PM
| link to this | reply
Re: krisles
yeah it's definitely patterns. He typically disregards me as a matter of course and when angry or stressed attacks me (verbally) like a rabid dog no matter the reason for his anger.
posted by
calia14
on May 2, 2015 at 7:54 AM
| link to this | reply
Re: Re: Re: Kabu
Thanks so much Kabu. I would definitely take my old diabetic kitty, he doesn't like to be a moment without me. The dog and the other cat are unquestionably his and best friends with each other besides, so it is clear cut. But I do love my doggy and kitty, so it will be hard to leave them.
posted by
calia14
on May 2, 2015 at 7:51 AM
| link to this | reply
Re: Re: Kabu
If one animal is particularly attached to you...make sure you get custody. Their Father kept the doxie aho was an unholy terrorist. LOl so when he wanted him and I was going to sydney I agreed. That little doggie broke his heart and broke mine too.
I both times left stuff, just took my precious things, and have no regrets.well perhaps for some books that i got overwhelmed with and have missed.
Ask me anything you like dear.
posted by
Kabu
on April 26, 2015 at 6:36 PM
| link to this | reply
calia
Everything that has been said before....plus, I will add that I suggest you look at the things you are most unhappy about that has brought you to this place and look for patterns....if this is a matter of repeated patterns then what are you going to do to change to make a difference because you cannot control him. If the unhappiness is not caused by patterns, then this too shall pass is usually the best meditation.
posted by
Krisles
on April 26, 2015 at 3:42 PM
| link to this | reply
sometimes remedying the little things make the big things vanish...it's amazing how much the stress goes down when the little things are resolved...big hug
posted by
Annicita
on April 26, 2015 at 1:13 PM
| link to this | reply
Try not to go to war over the pets they will be loved whatever.
posted by
C_C_T
on April 26, 2015 at 10:20 AM
| link to this | reply
Re: Kabu
I don't think that sounds materialistic, you had to make sure you had means to take care of your son and yourself. Thanks again for sharing your story with me, it helps to know the little details so I can think of these things in a real light. since there's no kids involved, I wouldn't ask for anything except my own stuff. The animals would be split up, though, unfortunately.
posted by
calia14
on April 26, 2015 at 8:33 AM
| link to this | reply
Lovey....sounds really materialistic I know, but before I left the kids dad I got a new second hand car...and tied him up to make the payments. He was left with a little car and I was taking my Son who is a musician with me...drum kit...one needs the space, so made sure that it was big enough. Gotta think clear about some things because once out there on your own it's tough and he will be Ok. They always are.
posted by
Kabu
on April 25, 2015 at 7:24 PM
| link to this | reply