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It is very interesting to read about your parents...I, too, have found that blame follows a lot of anger. With that, the cycle repeats itself.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on April 26, 2015 at 10:10 AM
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Well K my Dad and I worked together until he died young and we spent many hours quarreling and swearing at each other. We never held a grudge though and it just passed
back into a friendly relationship. I don't think this would work with most married couples.
posted by
C_C_T
on April 26, 2015 at 7:35 AM
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Hmmmm....
How can I handle this without making you angry and then I'll have to point out that it's your fault because you wrote the post after all..........
(OK....I'll try this)
I feel your pain...I kid you not when I say I never once, not at Christmas, on Birthdays, or Anniversaries......never...ever saw my parents kiss. Not even a peck or air kiss......
Joe's family is a bunch of huggers....when any gathering breaks up...everyone goes around and hugs everyone else goodbye. It was a horrific experience for me. I would awkwardly stiffen up.....it took years for me to learn that simple give and take of love.
So even though it's your fault here's my way of hugging you.....
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on April 25, 2015 at 3:55 PM
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Krisles
Well - more here than I or anyone, for that matter, could deal with within the confines of a comment, LOL...Just to your very last point - the 'blameless', diffuse anger people 'acquire' often without being conscious of it is like a disease - it's like a cancer that will ultimately destroy them... Anger whose sourcee can be identfied, and can hence be 'blamed' is a 'healthier' form of anger, because it is more easily overcome...
posted by
Nautikos
on April 25, 2015 at 3:27 PM
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