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Re: Re: kabu

flowers for a pretty lady and yes, I do understand and you can always email me for a chat.....

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posted by Kabu on April 22, 2015 at 6:14 PM | link to this | reply

Re: annicita

truer words were never spoken

posted by jeansaw on April 22, 2015 at 3:11 PM | link to this | reply

you were together for a long time...I understand...why not concentrate on things to improve your life?  join some groups that share your interest...get out and about and concentrate on your new life...why waste your time and thoughts on someone who no longer loves you?

posted by Annicita on April 21, 2015 at 7:44 PM | link to this | reply

Re: v1

well i cant go to slow or i will leave this world before i get it done.  i do feel an urgency i guess due to my age to get things in order.

posted by jeansaw on April 21, 2015 at 7:16 PM | link to this | reply

Re: adnohr

yes, i am overwhelmed and that is a big part of my problem.  rome was not built in a day and i have the rooms to rent and also the sheds i can rent for storage.  maybe i will have to hire some help to clean them out, and to get house ready to rent, i know i would also enjoy the company of people coming and going.    i do feel better letting off some steam.

posted by jeansaw on April 21, 2015 at 7:15 PM | link to this | reply

Re:krisles

thank you so much for understanding and you are right, i just need to blow until i am over it, i just hope i get over it before i die.

posted by jeansaw on April 21, 2015 at 7:10 PM | link to this | reply

Re: kabu

just knowing that others survived this kind of thing helps, and then today i look at my bank account and it says rita sawyer deposited my alimony and i think he saw his son today and couldnt even tell him that he got married.  he only saw his son to get money that my son paid him for an acre of land that connects to this property.  he is despicable. and i hate him, there i said it.

posted by jeansaw on April 21, 2015 at 7:09 PM | link to this | reply

 Take it slow, don't kill yourself trying to get all those things done.

posted by Vermont01 on April 21, 2015 at 6:35 PM | link to this | reply

Yep - letting off steam is good! Especially when we look around and are overwhelmed by the work needed on our place, and we can't afford to hire because we are still paying for it. But you know what? Something always comes up to help out.In my case it was Helen, a friend who needed a place to stay. When I offered her a room in my big place it was to give her a hand, but it ended up paying double, because she helped out so much - a win-win situation! It will come to you too - I can feel it.

posted by adnohr on April 21, 2015 at 3:50 PM | link to this | reply

jean

Everyone has to have a safety valve to let stuff out....it will come out someplace you might not like if you don't let it out clean....and this is a good place to do that....many of us understand that.  Blow, girl....blow.

posted by Krisles on April 21, 2015 at 3:44 PM | link to this | reply

Of course I will read and understand. I bet you felt somewhat better after this bit of a grumble...believe me there are things I would like to do to the #@^* too, with you. I used to have to park my car next to My kids father's second wife. I used to dream of bloewing it up with a bomb like the movies. Well i gad no idea how, and sometimes to my real spitting anger she would drive my two boys around. I decided it would be just my luck for my kids to be in the car when it blew up if I did have a bomb....then I would start to laugh at my silly anger.

posted by Kabu on April 21, 2015 at 2:06 PM | link to this | reply