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Re: Re: kabu
that is good news. I guess you are realizing that it all burned out long ago but it still hurts. and adjustments take time.
posted by
Kabu
on February 28, 2015 at 7:42 PM
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A hypnotist at a seminar I attended once gave one of the best tips I've ever heard for dealing with those old baggage memories that slip in occasionally - he said to freeze it like a photo in your mind and then see yourself crumple it up like a wad of trash in your hand and throw it away. Every time it pops back in, focus that photo in clearer and clearer, b/w or color, whichever makes the image clear....wad it up tighter and tighter and toss it. As for been there, done that....remember you've probably also got the t-shirt, it's got holes in it, you've used it for a dust rag and tossed it in a bin in the basement!
posted by
Krisles
on February 28, 2015 at 7:32 PM
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Re: fsi
i guess i got it wrong, after i thought about it you and my sis are right.
posted by
jeansaw
on February 28, 2015 at 5:52 PM
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That makes a lot of sense. Bullies are indeed weak, stemming from their insecurities.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on February 28, 2015 at 5:24 PM
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Re: cct
more than what i should have done or not, i wonder why i did not see more of what was real and happening.
posted by
jeansaw
on February 28, 2015 at 3:11 PM
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Re: taps
funny how she never told me any of this when i was still with my husband, but then he never liked my sisters either.
posted by
jeansaw
on February 28, 2015 at 3:10 PM
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Re: kabu
yes, i guess it is just a process, but i think i am getting tired of it finally.
posted by
jeansaw
on February 28, 2015 at 3:09 PM
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Re: Jimmy
yes, it sure did smell good but tasted better, sent home a loaf with my son.
posted by
jeansaw
on February 28, 2015 at 3:08 PM
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Yes I keep thinking of things that I should have done or did. Pity I don't leave next door I always wanted to pinch a pie off of a window sill.It is call in the mind Jean, time heals all.
posted by
C_C_T
on February 28, 2015 at 12:08 AM
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Sometime "Sis" does know best, and sometimes I know best for her. It is great that we can help each other out when needed.
posted by
TAPS.
on February 27, 2015 at 9:46 PM
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We just don't realize how abused we have been,,,I don't think always that the abuser either know s what they are doing....well with some attitudes anyway. Busy is really good but one has to sit and come to terms with what was and what is...and no matter what there is grief. You are doing real well and I do long for pictures.
posted by
Kabu
on February 27, 2015 at 1:03 PM
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Believe me, I do understand how your mind is working. Every once in a while, some left-field thought from years ago would suddenly pop into my brain, something I wish I had done differently, and I end up beating myself up over it all over again. It's a vicious cycle, one that's difficult at times to get away from. And I'll bet your house smelled wonderful after baking that bread . . . 
posted by
JimmyA
on February 27, 2015 at 12:18 PM
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