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hahaha, is 24 young? :P
posted by
DoodyM90
on January 12, 2015 at 2:55 AM
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Sorry I don't really know sometimes a feeling of fascination overrides most senses when one is young.
posted by
C_C_T
on January 12, 2015 at 1:31 AM
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Re: Re: Re: Feelings in the balance, weighing out unevenly
Indeed and only that when you love yourself, you will know how to love others :)
posted by
DoodyM90
on January 11, 2015 at 3:48 PM
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That's soooo sweet ! Well i met my sweetheart in college and now we r growing older together, I love him way too much and he loves me too but he is a very quiet guy which kinda makes me doubt his love at times!
posted by
DoodyM90
on January 11, 2015 at 3:47 PM
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I married twice for all the wrong reasons and it wasn't until I met our Wiley here on this site that I found out what real love is. It is just him, as he is, no wanting to change him and he makes me want to be a better person just because we love each other.
posted by
Kabu
on January 11, 2015 at 3:10 PM
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Re: Re: Feelings in the balance, weighing out unevenly
Your most important relationship is with you. 
posted by
Ciel
on January 11, 2015 at 2:22 PM
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Re: Feelings in the balance, weighing out unevenly
This is the best advice so far and i totally agree with you! I will take ur advices and try to gradually apply them to my relationship indeed!! 
posted by
DoodyM90
on January 11, 2015 at 2:15 PM
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Feelings in the balance, weighing out unevenly
are a sign that maybe what we think we are feeling is actually not the feeling we think it is. We all have beliefs about what love is, what it means. We equate certain criteria with actual love. We mistake one kind of love for another, there are so many things we call 'love!' What do we need to see or experience, to believe it's love? Will it survive the absence of those things?
Since you ask for advice, mine is this: know yourself: what you need and want, what moves you? And what are you looking for? What are your hopes, what are your expectations?
You can make another person need you, you can be the center of their attention for a while. But you can't make anyone love you. That just has to happen.
And that is my 2 pennies.
posted by
Ciel
on January 11, 2015 at 1:30 PM
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