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Re: dsm_tchr
Wiley, I know you have. You needn't explain. I only hope I didn't disrespect the topic.

posted by dsm_tchr on May 1, 2014 at 8:44 PM | link to this | reply

dsm_tchr

A long well written series you have there.For me, I spent some 30 years getting therapy for ptsd, so I didn't want to get into any more discussion........

posted by WileyJohn on May 1, 2014 at 7:41 PM | link to this | reply

I like that word Fawn.....A relative once said of myself..." She becomes anything that you want her to be" and I realized that he was probably right. I used to want to please everyone.

posted by Kabu on May 1, 2014 at 6:14 PM | link to this | reply

AThis post sheds light on it. BC-A, Bill’s R®st

posted by BC-A on May 1, 2014 at 11:20 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: fsi, reactivated = post trauma.

posted by dsm_tchr on May 1, 2014 at 10:39 AM | link to this | reply

Re: fsi, reactivated =pot

posted by dsm_tchr on May 1, 2014 at 10:38 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Shame is the manifestation
Ciel, fantastic. Well said!

posted by dsm_tchr on May 1, 2014 at 10:37 AM | link to this | reply

I had not thought about the possibility of it being reactivated.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on May 1, 2014 at 9:33 AM | link to this | reply

Shame is the manifestation

of the emotional flashback. The fear, the sense of profound abandonment, the bewildering sense of being unloved where every instinct expects love to be there, is deserved: it all boils down to a sense of overwhelming unworthiness, and shame at being so.

Shame devastates self-worth, the natural instinct we have to love and appreciate ourselves. 

This is what C-PTSD sufferers come up against constantly, and puts forward one of the greatest lies of all: that we are weak and ineffectual, fragile, powerless, cowardly, lacking in character...   In fact, to survive with these feelings for years, to maintain any sense of getting on with life despite, to counter the constant punishment with the joie de vivre that is also a truth of our living, to actually sometimes be happy--takes the greatest courage and strength! 

posted by Ciel on May 1, 2014 at 9:32 AM | link to this | reply