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our children are our children and continue in the role they always played as a child...hopefully one day they will realize how much all of this is truly hurting you

posted by Annicita on April 17, 2014 at 7:45 AM | link to this | reply

That’s nice relief and I hope a sure thing if you two would like to see each other again love. BC-A, Bill’s R®st

posted by BC-A on April 16, 2014 at 2:11 PM | link to this | reply

M. You do seem to take a lot of punishment.

posted by C_C_T on April 16, 2014 at 12:52 AM | link to this | reply

That does sound like a 'happy ending.' Perhaps your mate just had several things on his mind over the past week that really had nothing to do with you or your relationship. Stress really can be an underrated force that affects everyone differently. Perhaps after an evening like that, he will appreciate your company much more! As for your daughter, if you don't mind me saying so, another word that sometimes comes to mind when you explain some of these outbursts is combative. There are some people out there who, for whatever reason, simply enjoy confrontations. Sometimes the point of the argument is irrelevant. They just feel the need to yell and rant and complain and argue. Naturally I hope I'm wrong, because such a person would be extremely difficult to deal with . . . 

posted by JimmyA on April 15, 2014 at 8:02 AM | link to this | reply

I wonder what it would have been like for me if I had had any daughters.  I've always been close to my sons.  I've heard that sometimes mothers and daughters have trouble getting along.

posted by TAPS. on April 14, 2014 at 9:14 PM | link to this | reply

mneme

I am so sorry that your life is still topsy turvy over your situation. It is 34 years since my divorce, mostly I am not close to any of my 5 offspring, with psycotherapeutic help I learned to let them all go pretty much, they live their lives well and so do Kabu and I.Good luck and God Bless you

posted by WileyJohn on April 14, 2014 at 7:43 PM | link to this | reply

A powerful entry, I find this to be...Wonderful it is when things work out.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on April 14, 2014 at 5:26 PM | link to this | reply

mneme

Sometimes things work out more or less by themselves...I'm glad for you...

posted by Nautikos on April 14, 2014 at 4:41 PM | link to this | reply

great, things back to normal and maybe he really needed to not be near your daughter after the Christmas thing...needed space for him. Probably missed you like crazy, men can't always say it with words. The hugs and quiet peace between you says much.

posted by Kabu on April 14, 2014 at 4:17 PM | link to this | reply