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yes that is true but some people dont think i should do so much for my kids
posted by
Lanetay
on January 28, 2014 at 8:54 AM
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I'm sure some of this was a little difficult for you to share and rehash, but 'moving on' is all one can do with such a doleful past. I could tell you horror stories about some of my ex's, but since I have a wonderful woman in my life now, I do my best not to think about or dwell on any of them. You have your children, and soon a grandchild, and they're the special ones in your life now! That's all you need concern yourself with . . . 
posted by
JimmyA
on January 28, 2014 at 7:55 AM
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well I dont know if he misses me ever
posted by
Lanetay
on January 27, 2014 at 10:45 PM
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My ex and I have been devorced 30 years too...But I don't miss her.
posted by
UtahJay
on January 27, 2014 at 10:16 PM
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yes it was fun telling this story
posted by
Lanetay
on January 27, 2014 at 8:16 PM
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yeah I dont know what is going on with him at all
posted by
Lanetay
on January 27, 2014 at 8:15 PM
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I hope this will be very good for you simply cleansing it all out and forgiving him and all around including yourself.
posted by
Justi
on January 27, 2014 at 4:37 PM
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Yes well I have seen some very unhappy people who live together for different reasons.
you might be better off than you realize, although I know this must have been a painful
reminiscence and sadly your ex has found that no one gets ought for nowt.
posted by
C_C_T
on January 27, 2014 at 10:39 AM
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Re: Grandchildren...
hope I am up to it at 70
posted by
Lanetay
on January 26, 2014 at 10:04 PM
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yes that is true
posted by
Lanetay
on January 26, 2014 at 10:03 PM
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Grandchildren...
So special. You get to relive all the good and bad things and the best part, they go back home before you get really tired of them! That's why we grandparents are so giving.
posted by
food4thought
on January 26, 2014 at 9:32 PM
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It's a hard life for a woman, no matter which road one chooses. 
posted by
TAPS.
on January 26, 2014 at 8:59 PM
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thank you
posted by
Lanetay
on January 26, 2014 at 8:11 PM
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A very interesting series this was.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on January 26, 2014 at 5:09 PM
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thanks
posted by
Lanetay
on January 26, 2014 at 5:05 PM
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I dont know but I havent been able to become a beliver
thanks
posted by
Lanetay
on January 26, 2014 at 5:04 PM
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Well it isn't easy to find a Wiley. I mean it took me most of my life ...and having lots of less than desirable encounters after being left for other women is the classic way to deal with the harm and the hurt done to one. A psychiatrist explained it to me when I was going through a tough patch after my first divorce. You have done such a good job of writing all of this.
posted by
Kabu
on January 26, 2014 at 4:56 PM
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i just have jesus and when jesus is all you have you realize you have all you need. actually, i still have my dad, bros and sister. Mom passed away to her glorious future in may. God bless you and congrats on the grandchild. what a blessing.
posted by
Carolyn_Moe
on January 26, 2014 at 4:33 PM
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