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                oh i know she loves me ...it just hurts
                
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                    Annicita
                     on January 2, 2014 at 9:51 PM
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                well her favorite does that all the time...
  i am over it now but cried alot on the way home...just wasn't the christmas i hope for
                
                    posted by
                    Annicita
                     on January 2, 2014 at 9:43 PM
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                oh i have no doubt that i am not her favorite...my sister patti is and her son and this nephew come in next....there is a long line ahead of me and i am ok with it...just want her to honor her promise
                
                    posted by
                    Annicita
                     on January 2, 2014 at 9:41 PM
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                mmmmm he is one of her favorite grandsons since he was born with a lot of birth defects...but that is not the point...the point is i called ahead to make sure i had the room
                
                    posted by
                    Annicita
                     on January 2, 2014 at 9:39 PM
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                I came home that night and then my son woke me in the morning...i begged to just stay in my room but he came back again...so i went out to open presents with them...it was nice...then i went back to my room again...
                
                    posted by
                    Annicita
                     on January 2, 2014 at 9:38 PM
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                Your Mom must love you a lot to feel free to treat you that way, even though she is wrong to not give you your proper respect.
                
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                    TAPS.
                     on December 27, 2013 at 9:53 AM
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                That does sound like you're being treated like a 'second-class citizen' at your mom's, and I can't imagine why, especially since you phoned ahead of time! I wonder what would have happened if you called to say you were coming, but then just never showed up! How would that have been received? I know two wrongs don't make a right, but sometimes people need to be 'force-fed' their own medicine! Hope you had a nice Christmas anyway . . . 

                
                    posted by
                    JimmyA
                     on December 26, 2013 at 7:12 AM
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                Sadly A. We never lose that feeling of wanting to be a mothers favourite, it is inbred in all of us. Mothers do have favourites it is human nature, but sometimes it is for the wrong reason. In her mind she probably thinks our Anncita won't mind, she can fit in anywhere. At this moment you need love and a little consideration, but Mum does not realise this fact. Have two roses   
   
  
                
                    posted by
                    C_C_T
                     on December 26, 2013 at 12:08 AM
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                I would have been angry, too.
                
                    posted by
                    FormerStudentIntern
                     on December 25, 2013 at 12:28 PM
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                    Annicita
                
                Mother seems to be a bit thoughtless, to say the least...

                
                    posted by
                    Nautikos
                     on December 25, 2013 at 8:11 AM
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                You are right of course...One has to make a stansd at some stage and right now you need a bit more TLC than a nephew!!!! Try to salvage some Christmas fun from somewhere love.
                
                    posted by
                    Kabu
                     on December 24, 2013 at 9:17 PM
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