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Well she wasnt thinking when she did what she did and doesnt deal with anger very well

posted by Lanetay on November 4, 2013 at 6:57 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Yeah, but the 'bad' part in her shines more than the 'bad' part in a man.

well it must of been a man judge that would do that but I cant say I dont know maybe shes been in trouble before

posted by Lanetay on November 4, 2013 at 6:56 AM | link to this | reply

Sad, Sad stuff. Sounds like she could be a problem for your daughter too. Poor children of such circumstances.

posted by Justi on November 4, 2013 at 12:54 AM | link to this | reply

Yeah, but the 'bad' part in her shines more than the 'bad' part in a man.

That is the problem. It is a man's world/

posted by Straightforward on November 3, 2013 at 10:52 PM | link to this | reply

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she was going to work on getting her life and her baby a better life than she made one big mistake and may have messed up her life totally

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2013 at 9:10 PM | link to this | reply

Maybe she is sicker than she realizes and doesn't always get her facts right. I am betting that she had more than onelittle glass of wine. Of course the real loser in all this is that little baby. A sad story love.

posted by Kabu on November 3, 2013 at 4:49 PM | link to this | reply

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well according to her he doesnt give a crap about his son never ask about him or anything

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2013 at 2:59 PM | link to this | reply

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maybe but I only know one side and that is the moms

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2013 at 2:58 PM | link to this | reply

She sure has gotten herself into a fix there!  They usually give the child to one of the parents unless the mother can prove the dad is unfit as well.

posted by MsJudy on November 3, 2013 at 2:23 PM | link to this | reply

Because they were more interested in the safety of the child than the whims of this mother.........

posted by Corbin_Dallas on November 3, 2013 at 2:08 PM | link to this | reply

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thank you

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2013 at 12:05 PM | link to this | reply

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yes and they had agreement that he wouldnt have a certain person around her son and now she has no control of that

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2013 at 12:05 PM | link to this | reply

Here is to hoping that things work out for her.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on November 3, 2013 at 10:55 AM | link to this | reply

I have seen such decisions before, where either parent may be considered "unfit," and yet still receives custody of a child! Confusing . . . 

posted by JimmyA on November 3, 2013 at 10:49 AM | link to this | reply

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yeah she needed it before she did something so stupid

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2013 at 9:58 AM | link to this | reply

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I guess so but I guess she felt she had to have that wine to talk to him

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2013 at 9:57 AM | link to this | reply

Just goes to show how ridiculous the mental health clinics are.  They won't let you in unless you have been arrested or stopped by the police...Trying to take care of yourself before you reach that point is considered sanity...they really need to revamp their admissions etc.

Thankfully we have the Hyland Center in St. Louis and the benefactor made it a proviso that if someone came for help they couldn't turn them away.

posted by Annicita on November 3, 2013 at 9:33 AM | link to this | reply

Coming as an total outsider, I would think that the courts have lost faith in her, perhaps they are thinking, what if she drives under the influence with the baby in the car? You see the court does not consider happenstance or circumstance, only facts, and it was she who was over the limit, no matter how slightly, she should of known better than to be around her ex and her child in that condition under these circumstances.

posted by UtahJay on November 3, 2013 at 9:32 AM | link to this | reply