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Again, thank you all for your comments. They mean alot. It's not easy. It's not fun.
posted by
_Sincerity_Anna_
on November 2, 2013 at 3:47 PM
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Thank you everyone, for your comments.
posted by
_Sincerity_Anna_
on October 31, 2013 at 1:38 PM
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divorce is never easy whether you are the one who wants it or not...unfortunately children are always used as a weapon to hurt the other...my heart goes out to you...god bless
posted by
Annicita
on October 30, 2013 at 4:24 PM
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Sincerity Anna
Unfortunately the beat has gone on but relief's coming love. BC-A, BILL'S R
ST
posted by
BC-A
on October 30, 2013 at 2:53 PM
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No divorces here but we know many who have been through it...
My wife and I have been happily married for 44 years..
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posted by
Rumor
on October 30, 2013 at 2:28 PM
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Your situation is almost exactly like the one my sister is going through, with two key differences. First ( luckily ) my soon-to-be-ex-brother-in-law is not violent. No smashing things in his wake, thank God. And secondly, they were married for 28 years ( together for about 35 ). Too long to be with a person who could so easily fall out of love with someone ( and he too moved in with a girlfriend ). I can only hope that whatever lies before you as far as divorce is concerned goes as quickly and as smoothly as possible. You obviously do not deserve such unhappiness. Sending positive waves . . . 
posted by
JimmyA
on October 30, 2013 at 2:16 PM
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Of all the things I have gone through divorce was by far the hardest, well there was another thing, but divorce was harder than when I lost my first wife, or my parents, or my experiences in Vietnam...I feel for you.
posted by
UtahJay
on October 30, 2013 at 8:52 AM
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Well SA it is always sad for the children, they do not always realise the conflict that exists
once a relationship has broken down. I don't think for one moment that they would accept another person as their mother. I am sure you have no problem on that score.
posted by
C_C_T
on October 30, 2013 at 12:48 AM
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I hope you have plenty of support around you--friends, family--
Also, someone who can advise you legally and practically in what you need to do to be sure you keep your kids.
You will always find emotional support here in Blogit!
posted by
Ciel
on October 29, 2013 at 8:24 PM
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My heart goes out to you. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now...I myself have not been married, thus have not been divorced. My parents have been separated since June 2008.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on October 29, 2013 at 6:36 PM
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you poor love...here is a hug from me to you
. I had two divorces before I met the man I had spent my life looking for. Both were long term marriages. both time I gor beat up over the financial settlement. Whatever happens hang onto your children. They are yours and they need you. No one can substitute for you.
Like you both times I eventually had enough and just walked, yet I know that if Wiley had been around he would have been my only husband.
posted by
Kabu
on October 29, 2013 at 4:06 PM
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Sincerity Anna
$CThat’s the great divide of Blogit. Good post love. BC-A, Bill’s R®ST
posted by
BC-A
on October 29, 2013 at 3:01 PM
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