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                I am going to have to along with your daughter, sometimes what we thing will help ends up making things worse. 
                
                    posted by
                    MsJudy
                     on September 14, 2013 at 5:43 PM
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                No Grandma, I wouldn't do it either. You could maybe have a chat with grandson about the reason they are benching him though. He'll know for sure. As you say, he is learning something from this, and I would be very wary of saying anything without knowing exactly what is happening.
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on September 14, 2013 at 3:41 PM
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                    Nice
                
                
                
                    posted by
                    BC-A
                     on September 14, 2013 at 1:10 PM
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                I wouldn't do it...1. it might make it worse 2. he might be embarrassed  3.  he might be the butt of jokes (especially if this coach is one who likes to single out somebody and make them miserable...don't know if that is the case or not)
  god bless!
                
                    posted by
                    Annicita
                     on September 14, 2013 at 11:18 AM
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                    yeah, i'd check with your grandson...
                
                my brothers never did like the political coaches when they were in h.s... i think they saw all the "games" that went on. 
                
                    posted by
                    Carolyn_Moe
                     on September 14, 2013 at 11:16 AM
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                That is a tough situation for him to be in. I myself see nothing worse resulting from e-mailing the coach though I would check with your grandson to see if he is fine with that.
                
                    posted by
                    FormerStudentIntern
                     on September 14, 2013 at 9:55 AM
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