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Well, lion, I can only hope that, at some point, you finally learned your lesson and decided to "walk down a different street!" She's out there somewhere . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 8, 2013 at 6:29 AM | link to this | reply

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posted by JimmyA on July 8, 2013 at 6:27 AM | link to this | reply

Heavens, I think you just described the entire history of my love life

posted by lionreign on July 8, 2013 at 2:39 AM | link to this | reply

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posted by Kabu on July 7, 2013 at 7:57 PM | link to this | reply

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And to make it worse, MsJudy, there are some people who never get it at all! Unfortunately, I actually know a few people who would probably keep falling into that hole over and over and over! Oh that elusive common sense . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 10:10 AM | link to this | reply

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That doesn't sound, Utah, like much of an endorsement for those smart cars!  But now answer me this: no injuries sustained after the initial impact with the car, but what happened after the car knocked you into the hole? Hmmm . . . ? 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 10:08 AM | link to this | reply

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You're probably right, Sir Wiley. Whether someone eventually chose another street to walk down or not, falling in a second time does say something about their character, as you so aptly put . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 10:04 AM | link to this | reply

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A "slow top," Kabu? I like that description! Yeah, someone would have to be somewhat slow, or at least easily distracted, to fall into that same hole! Perhaps he was too busy bullshitting on his cell phone . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 10:02 AM | link to this | reply

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I'm on my way, C C T. But if I do give you a hand up, do you promise to at least pick another street to walk down, or will I have to rescue you again at some point . . . ? 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 9:59 AM | link to this | reply

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The trouble with that concept, FSI, is that sometimes it can be difficult to have much sympathy for anyone who keeps making the same mistakes over and over and over, never learning from them! How many times can you burn your fingers in the fire before you realize not to put your fingers in the fire? Sometimes a little common sense can go a long way . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 9:57 AM | link to this | reply

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A very good interpretation as well, Dr JPT. There were certain "acquaintances" I had known over the years that had trouble written all over them, and in most cases I was able to detach myself from them before tragedy struck. The one time I didn't, it cost me dearly ( a very long story ). However, I did learn from my mistake! Now, I never bother to try to "walk around the hole." I tend to pick another street . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 9:54 AM | link to this | reply

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That too, Mia. Sometimes people say "You should walk proudly with your head held high!" But in doing that, you may end up tripping over your own shoe laces! Me, I tend to walk while doing a 360 degree sweep of my entire surroundings, and that means looking down sometimes too! Quicksand pits are full of the skeletons of people who simply weren't paying attention . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 9:51 AM | link to this | reply

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The first one, sam, may not be your fault. Anything after that could be. Yeah, there's probably great shame in "falling" for something that had already burned you once! Live and learn . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 9:48 AM | link to this | reply

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That's true too, lustor. I don't know how many times someone may fall into that same hole before they either walk all the way around it, or pick another street. Some people seem doomed to repeat negative patterns . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 9:45 AM | link to this | reply

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It could be, adnohr. There's an old Groucho Marx saying that goes: "You can only fool a firefly twice!" Some people put their hand into a fire and get burned, can't believe it actually happened, and then stick their hand in the fire again just to make sure. I guess we're supposed to "learn" from our mistakes . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 9:43 AM | link to this | reply

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I guess that's one way to look at it, mariss. Some people might take the time to "fix" the hole, others may look to simply circumvent the hole, while others tend to avoid the hole altogether! It's all a matter of interpretation . . . 

posted by JimmyA on July 7, 2013 at 9:41 AM | link to this | reply

Some people just don't get it right away do they?  lol

posted by MsJudy on July 6, 2013 at 12:55 AM | link to this | reply

Went for a walk down the street, avoided the hole again and got hit by a smart car...No injuries to me, but the car was totaled...I fell in the hole.

posted by UtahJay on July 5, 2013 at 9:56 PM | link to this | reply

JimmyA

Now that's an A-Hole.

posted by WileyJohn on July 5, 2013 at 7:29 PM | link to this | reply

So this totally slow minded person takes two lots of injuries to get it that he should watch where he walks and even then it takes him another trip before deciding to take a different route. So of course,one cannot expect such a slow top to consider getting the problem fixed either by himself, or by the right department to do it.

posted by Kabu on July 5, 2013 at 1:13 PM | link to this | reply

Come and get me out of the first hole, I can't stay here all day. 

posted by C_C_T on July 5, 2013 at 11:13 AM | link to this | reply

Reading this makes me think that it takes some people longer to learn from their mistakes.

 

posted by FormerStudentIntern on July 5, 2013 at 11:06 AM | link to this | reply

Facing obstacles, learning the first time or second then learning to put up a wall to keep that particular event/person from continuing to wreak havoc is what I gather from this post. 

posted by Dr_JPT on July 5, 2013 at 10:58 AM | link to this | reply

I'm rather clumsy, so can certainly relate to the falling and injuries...but I think that's maybe not what you were getting at!

An excellent way to convey the message that it's important to learn from your experiences! And also, to watch where you're walking...

posted by Mia890 on July 5, 2013 at 10:39 AM | link to this | reply

I suspect anything can happen once, but if it repeats then shame on me for allowing it to happen! sam 

posted by sam444 on July 5, 2013 at 8:44 AM | link to this | reply

we are suppose to learn from our mistakes but for some it takes longer

posted by Lanetay on July 5, 2013 at 8:32 AM | link to this | reply

Hmmm - sounds like my business ventures.

posted by adnohr on July 5, 2013 at 8:21 AM | link to this | reply

Another annoying  fix-it like  so  many  of  mine.  At least the  person can eventually learn, but  he ought to report the hole and have it fixed. I have  so many I tend to delay them, which I have had to crack down on and start  fixing before it gets  more serious. Like my air  going completely  out before I reported it, although  it gave an excuse  to sleep  with fans and cool air since I had the fortune  of the night suddenly  turning cooler than usual.

posted by mariss9 on July 5, 2013 at 7:50 AM | link to this | reply