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The quote was a good description of those types of situations. I have experineced that too. 
posted by
mariss9
on July 2, 2013 at 6:02 AM
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TAPS
Good advice in that quote luv and I'm sorry you lost your friend.
posted by
WileyJohn
on June 30, 2013 at 8:42 PM
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There are people like that in my past, most people's I suppose. I used to blame myself but then someone helped me to understand that some friendships just wear themselves out. bit sad really.
posted by
Kabu
on June 30, 2013 at 6:58 PM
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I have a few people who I wonder what become of them...
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on June 30, 2013 at 9:33 AM
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I have a situation similar but its only been since I moved here that we lost contact and I know its my fault, but at the same time its partialy her fault.
posted by
Lanetay
on June 30, 2013 at 8:14 AM
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TAPS
A sad story...
posted by
Nautikos
on June 30, 2013 at 8:05 AM
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A very sad story.
posted by
UtahJay
on June 30, 2013 at 7:45 AM
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It's not you, it's her. Your vibes are nourishing and fun.
She no doubt had a sudden urge to isolate herself, go somewhere and be someone else.
posted by
Pat_B
on June 30, 2013 at 7:18 AM
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Sometimes, someone chooses to leave.
People change their minds. What they want changes, and they go somewhere else to find it.
And it seems, they never say why, never talk it out face to face, as if only their take on the matter, matters. Or as it they don't have the courage to see your face as they hurt you. At best, they make excuses, that it isn't you, it's them... I've been treated this way, too.
Happily, you have many, many friends and family who love you and delight in you, here and now. And that means more than delving back into a past sadness.
posted by
Ciel
on June 30, 2013 at 7:13 AM
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Taps I am sorry. I am sure it is not something you did you two had too good a relationship it seems for one of you to have vanished over a dis by the other. I guess something in her life got too hard to carry and she ran from it all. I hope you find her to satisfy the pain of loss. 
posted by
Justi
on June 30, 2013 at 6:01 AM
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So sad Taps... Have you tried "My Life" ? Its a people finder... for a small fee, I don't remember how much but I think it starts at around $20.00 , they find anyone and give you their information... phones, addresses, etc. I found a relative of my husbands that I needed to contact to get some medical information from through them and I was amazed at how easy it was. If I had wanted to, and for a little more money , I could have gotten from another website even the guys creditcard numbers loll It never ceases to shock me how available is our personal information in the internet... Another example... my mother inlaw had gone and check herself into an assited living facility and did not tell anyone where... ( she was cockoo for coco puffs) We look for her for days and nothing. we were about to go to the police or to hire a PI and I decided to try one more thing. I went online and in 30 minutes I had all the information I needed, just with her name and last address!!!
Good luck darling... xoxoxo
posted by
Sinome
on June 29, 2013 at 8:45 PM
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