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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: i always told my parents what I intended to do. It wasn't asking
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Lanetay
on June 20, 2013 at 9:08 AM
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Re: Re: Re: Re: i always told my parents what I intended to do. It wasn't asking
posted by
Kabu
on June 19, 2013 at 6:33 PM
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Re: Re: Re: i always told my parents what I intended to do. It wasn't asking
yeah I didnt expect her to ask but let me know would of been nice
posted by
Lanetay
on June 19, 2013 at 9:48 AM
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Re: Re: i always told my parents what I intended to do. It wasn't asking
posted by
Kabu
on June 17, 2013 at 4:52 PM
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yes so now when she flies back maybe she wont tell me that
posted by
Lanetay
on June 17, 2013 at 9:50 AM
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She is usually such a caring person
posted by
Lanetay
on June 17, 2013 at 9:50 AM
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View this as WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW WILL NOT HURT YOU. You did not have to worry about a thing nor did you wonder if she was having fun or anything about the trip. I learned that it is a part of control and the less you know, the less you have to think about. No news is good news. Good think aloud. :-)
posted by
Dr_JPT
on June 17, 2013 at 8:51 AM
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I agree with Kabu. It probably would have been a courtesy more than anything else to let you know of her plans. God forbid anything happened, at least you would have been aware of her travels. I'm sure the "hurt" was unintentional . . .
posted by
JimmyA
on June 17, 2013 at 8:50 AM
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maybe so
posted by
Lanetay
on June 16, 2013 at 11:19 PM
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Perhaps she thought she already had told you at some point since she had already told you "June". People are so busy these days, and everyone is forgetful.
posted by
TAPS.
on June 16, 2013 at 10:13 PM
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Re: i always told my parents what I intended to do. It wasn't asking
Yeah I didnt quit understand why she didnt
posted by
Lanetay
on June 16, 2013 at 9:51 PM
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i always told my parents what I intended to do. It wasn't asking
permission it was just a courtesy information. I guess because it is Father's day and I am feeling the loss a bit makes me more sensitive and think that she could have just let you know.
posted by
Kabu
on June 16, 2013 at 5:27 PM
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I am glad I am not the only one that feels that way
posted by
Lanetay
on June 16, 2013 at 12:26 PM
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I ALWAYS tell my mother if I'm going somewhere - especially if it involves getting on a plane. She doesn't need to know and I certainly don't ask her permission. But I know she would be hurt if I took a trip without telling her.
I'm sure your daughter didn't mean to hurt you, but it sounds like she has done just that, I'm sorry to hear it
posted by
Mia890
on June 16, 2013 at 11:18 AM
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well guess that just shows who is close and who isnt
posted by
Lanetay
on June 16, 2013 at 10:02 AM
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While I do not have kids, I would feel hurt if my parents or sister did not tell me when exactly they were going somewhere. I imagine they would feel the same way...I wish her and her husband a nice time there.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on June 16, 2013 at 9:52 AM
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