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and people need to realize that if you are alone , you can help yourself, start coughing, take an asprin while you wait for help to arrive.  a deep cough compresses the heart , just like being given cpr.

posted by jeansaw on March 12, 2013 at 2:36 PM | link to this | reply

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I personally would have had to leave my job if I was required to watch someone die that I could have helped. I realize there are legal reasons but I personally could not do that. I am proud of what your husband did.

posted by Justi on March 11, 2013 at 3:51 PM | link to this | reply

Good thinking Taps Children could learn it in school and how to change a baby's nappies.

might sober the young lads up bit.      Also how to spend money wisely.  

posted by C_C_T on March 11, 2013 at 11:36 AM | link to this | reply

I didnt read the whole story but it had something to do with them not being aloud to give cpr, how stupid but these days they let really old people go because they dont want to keep paying themthe government I am talking about

posted by Lanetay on March 11, 2013 at 8:40 AM | link to this | reply

It is a useful skill to know. 

posted by mariss9 on March 11, 2013 at 7:31 AM | link to this | reply

Yes, I heard of that incident too, and it was horrible on their part to instruct their workers not to help! Forget company policy, forget written by-laws, forget rules and regulations . . . how about one human helping another human! Is that so hard for people to accept anymore . . . ?

posted by JimmyA on March 11, 2013 at 6:27 AM | link to this | reply

I have worked night shift and do understand.  I guess that most people these days are too afraid of being sued if they get CPR wrong and so they refuse to get involved.  Sadly we can't prosecute the legal profession for conspiracy to murder

posted by lionreign on March 11, 2013 at 4:05 AM | link to this | reply

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EMEver since I’ve been sleeping 7 to 11 and last night 7 to 12:30 and then, working on my blog love. BC-A, Bill’s R®st

posted by BC-A on March 11, 2013 at 2:51 AM | link to this | reply

Here when we call the 911 people, we have to tell them if there is a no-resusitation request signed. I imagine the nurse on hand knew, but it was the media who 'took it to town'.  I agree that if  you are not aware of the request, you most certainly do what you can to help!!

posted by adnohr on March 10, 2013 at 7:36 PM | link to this | reply

I agree, it is good to know what to do in the event of an emergency! sam 

posted by sam444 on March 10, 2013 at 6:55 PM | link to this | reply

yes so true....i learned those but never really had to practice on anybody...though i was choking last summer and everybody just looked at me like an idiot except for one guy who realized i was choking

posted by Annicita on March 10, 2013 at 3:32 PM | link to this | reply

when one goes into a hospice for the dying one is normally

informed as is the family that there is no resuscitation. All has been done that can be done, now is the time for loving care to ensure comfort and quality of life versus quantity of life. I could, but won't, write a book about working in this area....I am sure that you are the same ...but at other times and places, yes of course I have worked hard sometimes successful too.

posted by Kabu on March 10, 2013 at 12:57 PM | link to this | reply

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That episode at the home seemed ridiculous to me and it seems like such an inhumane way to act. I would have done it even if my training is rusty.

posted by WileyJohn on March 10, 2013 at 12:51 PM | link to this | reply

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I remember reading about it, and at first I was appalled. When more news came out about it, the whole thing turned out to be more complicated that it appeared to be at first, but still - I think the first principle should be to give assistance...

posted by Nautikos on March 10, 2013 at 12:28 PM | link to this | reply

I never thought about those who are working when the time officially changes. I've been focused on my own snoring.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on March 10, 2013 at 12:05 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Pat_B

I definitely agree with you on that last bit.  But, heart attacks and accidents happen to the young and the strong on occasion and often they are very grateful to have been the recipient of aid.

posted by TAPS. on March 10, 2013 at 8:03 AM | link to this | reply

That extra hour at the end of a long night's vigil in a hospital ward

is the one that earns nurses purple hearts for valor. It would be different if all they did was watch over snoozing patients - but so many shocks and starts happen at night... As for the one who sat by and refused to do CPR, I remember reading somewhere when the story first came out that the patient's family said the nurse did the right thing. If the woman was terminally ill and likely to suffer on a life support device it would be cruel to force her into that situation. Speaking for myself - I'd tell the nurse to let me go with what little peace and dignity I had left.

posted by Pat_B on March 10, 2013 at 7:21 AM | link to this | reply