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Re: lustorlove

I am not so sure I have watched and heard him for so long I dont know what will eventually happen to him

posted by Lanetay on February 19, 2013 at 9:12 PM | link to this | reply

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but this has been going on for so long I dont know if he will ever find his way

posted by Lanetay on February 19, 2013 at 9:11 PM | link to this | reply

Re: If he isn't really taking your advice, then I am thinking that what he want

you are so right, he has a wonderful sense of humor and a lot of love to give but he has always been ignored and very few give him the chance to be the person he is

posted by Lanetay on February 19, 2013 at 9:10 PM | link to this | reply

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I am at the point I dont know what to do

posted by Lanetay on February 19, 2013 at 9:08 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove

I know that you just 'BEING' is what he needs, I'm sure eventually he will make his way.

posted by WileyJohn on February 19, 2013 at 8:40 PM | link to this | reply

I know it's hard but he will find his way! He's the only one who can do it and you are there to support him and lend an ear! sam 

posted by sam444 on February 19, 2013 at 8:19 PM | link to this | reply

If he isn't really taking your advice, then I am thinking that what he want

from you is to just listen to him and let him know that you believe in him. Nothing can hurt us like our children hurting.

posted by Kabu on February 19, 2013 at 7:08 PM | link to this | reply

lustor, my grandmother told me that when you have children, when they are young they tug at your apron strings, and when they are grown they tug at your heart strings and i also know what that feels like.  When my son went through a hard time and he talked to me about it, he said, "Mom i do not need you to solve my problems, i just need you to listen."  You are there for him lustor and that is the important thing and maybe the only thing you can do for him.

posted by jeansaw on February 19, 2013 at 6:18 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Lustor

he has down its just his anxiety about being dumped again

posted by Lanetay on February 19, 2013 at 4:26 PM | link to this | reply

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I just dont what more I can do for him

posted by Lanetay on February 19, 2013 at 4:25 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor

This is good advice. He needs to listen but I don't know how that works. Just keep doing what you are doing. All of you are better living in your own places and he will get it sooner or later, hopefully sooner.

posted by Justi on February 19, 2013 at 2:05 PM | link to this | reply

I wish I had some sound advice for you on this one, but since I have no children, it's difficult for me to fully relate. I know others who have gone through similar experiences, and as a parent, all you can do is be as supportive as possible ( which I've no doubt you are ). If there just was a way to give your son some hope and motivation, something may "ignite" within him and he may seek employment more diligently. Who knows? Sometimes, when you least expect it . . .

posted by JimmyA on February 19, 2013 at 1:37 PM | link to this | reply

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it is so sad and not knowing what to do

posted by Lanetay on February 19, 2013 at 10:54 AM | link to this | reply

Here is to hoping that his situation improves.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on February 19, 2013 at 9:36 AM | link to this | reply

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You are so right

posted by Lanetay on February 19, 2013 at 9:30 AM | link to this | reply

Once a mom, a mom for life....even when we can't really help them.  Just keep standing by him as you always have.

posted by TAPS. on February 19, 2013 at 9:12 AM | link to this | reply