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I can't say more than Ciel and Kabu have already said. My prayers are with you too.
posted by
adnohr
on January 24, 2013 at 12:37 AM
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This is not surprising to hear.
All three of you have been through your own emotional wringers, and are trying to live a normal, wholesome life with a tremendous amount of personal baggage.
Those of us who are damaged by our lives--and that is nearly everyone--have beliefs and reactions that are distorted, off-kilter, sensitized, numbed... We all have ways of coping with the chaos inside, so that we can function outside. This is what counselors and counseling are for: to help us compare how we see the world with how 'normal' sees the world.
I hope we, here, who regard you as friends, can encourage you find healing, and know always that within the acting-out is the real person, trying not to be overwhelmed by pain and frustration.
posted by
Ciel
on January 23, 2013 at 9:51 AM
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I am comforted that you can share here with us who really care about you
and this whole situation for Piggens.
I guess he is a little boy who is scared that he will lose his Aunt with his tantrums which of course continues the circle.
I feel your pain, to be shut out, to be blamed or whatever. It is yes, unfair and cruel. I will pray that everything can settle down and you are restored to the important role that you play in the life of this poor hurting little guy...and that your pain can be released as well.
posted by
Kabu
on January 23, 2013 at 9:13 AM
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