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That it is, TAPS. Beautiful, but at the same time, somewhat sad, at least to me. 
posted by
JimmyA
on January 16, 2013 at 7:52 AM
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I think it is beautiful. What a way to keep sharing his memories with her and keeping her alive in his heart.
posted by
TAPS.
on January 15, 2013 at 11:19 PM
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Perhaps, mariss. But I guess for this couple, it was their morning coffee ( my wife loves green tea too! ) 
posted by
JimmyA
on January 15, 2013 at 2:27 PM
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A good conclusion indeed. I wonder if anyone else would like ice or tap water or green tea for breakfast like I do! Flowers would work, though.
posted by
mariss9
on January 15, 2013 at 2:06 PM
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Re: JimmyA
So sorry to hear that, Wiley. These are the types of painful memories I was hoping not to invoke. That's why I was reluctant to touch on this particular subject. 
posted by
JimmyA
on January 15, 2013 at 5:04 AM
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JimmyA
I lost my former wife to brain cancer...........
posted by
WileyJohn
on January 14, 2013 at 3:11 PM
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Powerful and touching, FSI, but also somewhat depressing, at least for some people. There is something positive and uplifting in this tale of this man's devotion to his late wife, but it can also be a rather sensitive subject to bring up to people as well, which I usually try to avoid. My wife and I share our morning coffee each day as well . . .
posted by
JimmyA
on January 14, 2013 at 1:37 PM
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I suppose it is, lustor. But I know that will never be the case between me and my wife. Again, I usually try to post things that are a little less serious, and more on the humorous side. But I thought this would be a nice story to share this time around . . .
posted by
JimmyA
on January 14, 2013 at 1:33 PM
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Well, it is that, adnohr. But I was just worried that some people might find it somewhat depressing to discuss something as personal as the loss of a loved one. The last thing I would want to do is remind people of what could be a painful topic to bring up. I don't want to be accused of being insensitive, even unintentionally . . .
posted by
JimmyA
on January 14, 2013 at 1:31 PM
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That it is, sam, that it is! I know it's both a touching but somewhat depressing tale, but personally, whenever it comes to my mind, it just makes me love my wife even more!
posted by
JimmyA
on January 14, 2013 at 1:26 PM
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You're very welcome, Amanda. It really is a testiment to people's love and devotion to each other, as sad as the general story may be . . .
posted by
JimmyA
on January 14, 2013 at 1:23 PM
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Re: Jimmy
Thanks, Justi. That's the way I see it too. However, I am still usually reluctant to bring up such topics, and I just didn't want to depress anyone with this tale. But I still found it touching myself and worthy of retelling . . .
posted by
JimmyA
on January 14, 2013 at 1:20 PM
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Of course the overall tale can be perceived as touching, Naut. I was just more concerned about posting something that might not generally be as fun or as uplifting as most of my other blogs. No one really likes to discuss this particular topic, me included, but I thought the uniqueness of the story itself made it interesting enough to pass on.
posted by
JimmyA
on January 14, 2013 at 1:18 PM
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Re: actually I find this story far from a downer. It is one of true love and
You're welcome, Kabu, and I'm glad you didn't find it a downer. Absolutely it is a tale of true love, but it is also a painful reminder of our mortality. I just didn't want anyone to get depressed after reading it.
posted by
JimmyA
on January 14, 2013 at 1:11 PM
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A very powerful entry I find this to be. Very touching I found it to be that he came there every day with a cup of coffee.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on January 14, 2013 at 9:40 AM
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not a downer at all its nice to hear of love so strong when sometimes these days its hard to find
posted by
Lanetay
on January 14, 2013 at 8:26 AM
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Nor do I find it sad, Jimmy. It's quite beautiful; a story of devotion, and a person's way of keeping on.
posted by
adnohr
on January 14, 2013 at 2:01 AM
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I had to fight tears, too! It is a wonderful story of love and commitment! sam 
posted by
sam444
on January 13, 2013 at 2:01 PM
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Jimmy,
Thank you for sharing this beautiful and touching story with us.
posted by
Amanda__
on January 13, 2013 at 12:00 PM
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Jimmy
This is a beautiful post. It is his way of mourning and still sharing. Knowing that you will again be together and that for an eternity is beautiful.
posted by
Justi
on January 13, 2013 at 11:43 AM
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Jimmy
I also don't think of this story as a 'downer'...It's very touching...
posted by
Nautikos
on January 13, 2013 at 11:38 AM
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actually I find this story far from a downer. It is one of true love and
the ability of the human Spirit to continue on and survive. Some would say that he should move on but for me I see it as his way of moving on, of being able to face the day without his beloved companion. Thank you for the read.
posted by
Kabu
on January 13, 2013 at 11:35 AM
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