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I am pleased that it all worked out and very proud of you for standing your ground! It was too much to ask! sam xxxx

posted by sam444 on January 2, 2013 at 3:42 PM | link to this | reply

A smile does go a long way, bro!

posted by adnohr on November 30, 2012 at 3:45 AM | link to this | reply

Dear Justi - you be as bold as you want!

I know whatever you say is because you sincerely care, and that warms my heart. We both know that God works in mysterious ways. I think maybe this event was a little reminder to be on my toes. Better to learn it now than when I'm much older and unable to do much about it. Thank you!!

posted by adnohr on November 30, 2012 at 3:45 AM | link to this | reply

adnohr

I have you in my prayers sis and will not try to advise you in any way. Keep smilin' and life will sort itself out.

posted by WileyJohn on November 29, 2012 at 5:57 PM | link to this | reply

Dear Lady

Forgive me for being so bold. I have prayed for you and I know God is strong in our weakness and there is a blessing in all problems. You are due for such a blessing and I am praying that it occur very soon.

posted by Justi on November 29, 2012 at 12:05 PM | link to this | reply

adnohr

I am cautious, but I wish you the very best of everything. I am a mother and a grandmother. You do wonders with these little ones. I believe maybe you need to do some very strong dealing with son too. I could not be content to have that as 'his lady's house' alone. Write for pay soon. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Sorry, I feel as if you are a close friend. I am not meaning to step out too far. I don't expect a smart woman like you to accept any advice you do not deem appropriate I just have to say... I don't see any of this as being on your side totally.

posted by Justi on November 29, 2012 at 11:21 AM | link to this | reply

Oh yes - I am on my toes, Kabu

Once burnt, twice shy...I hope.

posted by adnohr on November 28, 2012 at 10:17 PM | link to this | reply

Yes, and actually a pretty good option, FSI

I think we'll be okay.

posted by adnohr on November 28, 2012 at 10:16 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you BC-A. I agree...even have proof!

posted by adnohr on November 28, 2012 at 10:16 PM | link to this | reply

Yes - I think all of us in here need to write, Nautikos

it isn't for the pay, is it?

posted by adnohr on November 28, 2012 at 10:15 PM | link to this | reply

I've been reading the Writer's DIgest, Pat_B

And studying how you and other Blogit members set up your posts. I have learned much by being in here. Hopefully it will pay off one day, even if only in pleasure.

posted by adnohr on November 28, 2012 at 10:14 PM | link to this | reply

I do love where I live CCT,

but I also realize that the house is huge and needs plenty of upkeep. As for the doggies, they live with me. No kennels for them if I can do anything to stop it. We'll share a tent! I don't expect to make my living by writing - but hope to make it a decent sideline one day...maybe.

posted by adnohr on November 28, 2012 at 10:12 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you, and I certainly hope so, UtahJay.

So far, so good.

posted by adnohr on November 28, 2012 at 10:09 PM | link to this | reply

I'm hanging, TAPS

I try to focus on what is most important. I'm this old and still having a time of it making the right choice when my feelings get in the way. I guess that darned struggle never stops!

posted by adnohr on November 28, 2012 at 10:09 PM | link to this | reply

You are an amazing person well I already knew that...but stay aware!!

posted by Kabu on November 28, 2012 at 5:24 PM | link to this | reply

I am glad to read that there was a truce. I am also glad that there is a second option available.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on November 28, 2012 at 9:53 AM | link to this | reply

adnohr

mCA smile goes a long way love. BC-A, Bill’s R®st

posted by BC-A on November 28, 2012 at 8:28 AM | link to this | reply

adnohr

I am sooo glad that things appear to working out for you, and for all of you! You will still find time for writing - and you will write, I'm sure of that! I know you have the need to write...

posted by Nautikos on November 28, 2012 at 6:12 AM | link to this | reply

I think you've done the right thing for yourself, maybe more for the others

but they're your heart.

If you're going to write, you need ten hours a week to build your skill to professional level. The blog counts here, it muscles up your mind-body links. It's not just idle chatter. I've found the Writer's Digest newsletters very helpful - they talk about markets, how to submit, what agents and publishers are looking for, and many tips & tricks about plot, character, motivations, etc.. You've got the memories, experiences, the "clay" for sculpting. Write on!  

posted by Pat_B on November 28, 2012 at 4:42 AM | link to this | reply

 You have this week spot in your childhood when your parents left. Keep your house, it is security what happens if your sons die before you. You could always move into a smaller place, but you like it where you are, soon small businesses will want outlets, or as you suggested once you could let a part of the building, but goodness have the best rooms even if you have to kennel the doggies outside in a warm shed. Writing for a living is tough, the publishers want to sell images, they know a star will sell even if it is rubbish.  I know everyone has what they think is the best for you. You have some lovely children, and grandchildren. I am not knocking them.  

posted by C_C_T on November 28, 2012 at 12:05 AM | link to this | reply

Yes...You are a strong woman and I wish you well, but I get the feeling that you will make it all turn up roses.

posted by UtahJay on November 27, 2012 at 11:06 PM | link to this | reply

You have a lot of strength, and a lot of wisdom.  Hang in there.

posted by TAPS. on November 27, 2012 at 11:01 PM | link to this | reply