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Oh my! I'm here to get caught up and I don't much like what I am getting caught up to. I hope the next two posts of yours (which are already there waiting for me) are more positive in your favor.
posted by
TAPS.
on November 27, 2012 at 6:47 AM
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adnohr
You painted a picture of a little wimpy sort of woman with an artsy nature. She is more impy than wimpy. You are good with the little boys, it is time for you to stick your nose in the daddy's business because he has made your business his. Let him know for sure you are not going down stairs or anywhere else until he has learned what is ahead for him. She is giving her children away and her husband for that matter unless she can get your house with him and the boys and you out. Talk to him as you would your oldest rug rat for he needs to learn something just as much as these boys. She is a viper. I am praying for you. I love your smiles but this is a time to put the hands on the hips and snarl on the face or you will be taken in for all you have. I am angry.
It is time to kick butt. Don't worry about a big boy getting hurt. I am worried about a big Mama getting hurt.
posted by
Justi
on November 24, 2012 at 3:25 PM
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Re: AH my, Kabu - so you know how shocked I was even at the idea!!
Of course Son is going to get hurt and i keep hearing the voice of your eldest Rug rat telling you how he was really happy now, living with you.
I feel for all of you except for that witch of a young woman who now has, the house in her name, your son by his you know where and the children totally confused. You out of the picture. and now what are you going to do for finacial security. we send more hugs your way. feel 'em coming.
posted by
Kabu
on November 24, 2012 at 11:07 AM
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Re: No matter what she does, those kids will not forget how it was
living at your house, and it won't be that long before the next shift in the situation. It may seem as if she is having it all her way now, but in the long run, she stands to be the biggest loser here.
posted by
Ciel
on November 24, 2012 at 7:04 AM
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As you may be aware, UtahJay, I am a firm believer
that everything happens for a reason.It hurts right now - I'm already missing the rug rats, but I've handled worse things. It was just a shock. I'll get over it.
posted by
adnohr
on November 24, 2012 at 12:19 AM
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I know you are there, bro, and thank you!
Hey - your French is really good , and thank you again, but I'll be ok. Gonna get a haircut and get a real job.
posted by
adnohr
on November 24, 2012 at 12:17 AM
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AH my, Kabu - so you know how shocked I was even at the idea!!
Well - it's over now. They're all back in her house, a family again, and that is how I am going to look at it. Fortunately, my daughter gave me advance notice, so I had calmed myself before talking to my son. One day your son will wake up and realize what he has been missing all time! I have a terrible feeling that my son is going to get badly hurt.
posted by
adnohr
on November 24, 2012 at 12:15 AM
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I have no wise words to say, no simple fixes. I just know that God loves all of his children and that things have a way of working out, and for you and the children I hope they work out for the best. Put it in His hands.
posted by
UtahJay
on November 24, 2012 at 12:14 AM
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As sorted as it can be in the circumstances, FSI
How did your Thanksgiving go? I remember you were hosting....
posted by
adnohr
on November 24, 2012 at 12:06 AM
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Blood pressure was way down, JimmyA
No one thing at a time - it all disappeared together. But there is always something new around the corner, isn't there?
posted by
adnohr
on November 24, 2012 at 12:05 AM
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Yes, that she does, Ciel.
And she has used it. Ah well, everything happens for a reason.
posted by
adnohr
on November 24, 2012 at 12:03 AM
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Not anymore, BC-A
They have all gone..except for the cat and bird who will probably be moved next week.
posted by
adnohr
on November 24, 2012 at 12:01 AM
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I beginning to wonder if that had not been her plan all along, Nautikos.
I'm still scratching my head that she would even go there. Damn, but I'm a poor judge of character!!
posted by
adnohr
on November 24, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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Yes, Pat_B, wore my rational hat
The only tears shed were with my doggies when I got home alone. They are great comforters!
posted by
adnohr
on November 23, 2012 at 11:57 PM
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Adnohr
Just had to say hello and read you sis. That situation you're in is deplorable and don't forget we are not far from you if you need us. Aussi pour les affaires financier si vous besoin ma belle soeur,vraiment.W&K plus M. Graysome
posted by
WileyJohn
on November 23, 2012 at 10:51 AM
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I am too angry to make a proper comment. I am going to pray for resolution
that is right for you and send you my love and a big hug. My DIL. wanted to kick me into a couple of rooms and have the rest of a huge house to herself. Didn't work but she took my babies and my son away from me completely.
posted by
Kabu
on November 23, 2012 at 10:19 AM
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Here is to hoping that things get sorted out and that the holidays go well for you all.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on November 23, 2012 at 9:29 AM
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One at a time! I guess you've got to sort things out one at a time! No need to raise your blood pressure unnecessarily!
posted by
JimmyA
on November 23, 2012 at 9:27 AM
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This sounds like a hostage situation.
Kids, feelings, finances, homes... She has a lot of leverage.
Reminds me of that well-known quote: "Give me a long-enough lever and a place to stand, and I can break my lever."
posted by
Ciel
on November 23, 2012 at 8:42 AM
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adnohr
ZSo you have plenty of conflict there love. BC-A, Bill’s R®st
posted by
BC-A
on November 23, 2012 at 6:43 AM
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adnohr
It seems madame has changed her mind and wants to fashion her world without regard for the other parties involved - not good! The only advice I can give is one you probably don't need - don't let her take advantage of you...
posted by
Nautikos
on November 23, 2012 at 6:17 AM
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Oh, I hate this kind of fence-sitting and indecision.
And not knowing. It's so stressful. I hope when you talk to your son you'll be wearing your rational hat as usual, and the discussion doesn't leave anyone weeping. No regrets, you've all given it a good try and you all want the best for one another.
posted by
Pat_B
on November 23, 2012 at 3:41 AM
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