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Re: I agree...
I can't top that, Jimmy. Thanks.
posted by
RamfamilyWritings
on November 13, 2012 at 5:25 PM
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For me, having sex and making love are two completely different things. Anyone can have sex, but making love, aah, there's the challenge! It's the spiritual vs. the physical. Making love is the whole package! 
posted by
JimmyA
on November 12, 2012 at 1:29 PM
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Hi, LorL. I'd have to disagree with a part of that: I think most men are just as emotional or even more emotional when it comes to sex. The woman of this century and of the last is not the same--many detach themselves when it comes to sex. Men and women often seek sex out to fill an empty space with, where true love should have filled.
posted by
RamfamilyWritings
on November 12, 2012 at 11:42 AM
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Yes, I didn't quite understand Kabu, but I think it's definitely a thing to observe--see our weaknesses as well as our strengths. We don't always need Dr. Ruth or other so-called sex therapists to see those things. And as you say "to each their own".
Isaiah
posted by
RamfamilyWritings
on November 12, 2012 at 11:33 AM
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So true, CCT. There is still much men and women need to learn when it comes to consideration and understanding the five senses...not speaking for the sixth 
posted by
RamfamilyWritings
on November 12, 2012 at 11:29 AM
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a lot woman see sex as love me can detach themselves from the emotions of love and its just sex. Nothing more than that
posted by
Lanetay
on November 12, 2012 at 8:57 AM
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I agree with Kabu and CCT to a point. You say evolve, I say, in many ways revert. But each for themselves of course.
posted by
UtahJay
on November 11, 2012 at 11:20 PM
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Well Sir if both desire sex, that is great, no different from eating a nice meal.
It is when one of the partners usually female does not really want the trauma that raises
the problem. Using someone just to appease, is a different ball game. You are young, your wife loves you.
I have heard too many tales from the past men using wives in an inconsiderate way. 
posted by
C_C_T
on November 11, 2012 at 11:02 PM
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Thanks for reading, FS. I appreciate your feedback on this.
posted by
RamfamilyWritings
on November 11, 2012 at 7:09 PM
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Wise words, I feel, especially about setting an example.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on November 11, 2012 at 4:46 PM
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Re: not a spectator sport from my perspective!
Hmm? Well...you kinda lost me a bit, Kabu. But thanks for commenting and reading all the same.
posted by
RamfamilyWritings
on November 11, 2012 at 4:33 PM
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not a spectator sport from my perspective!
posted by
Kabu
on November 11, 2012 at 3:10 PM
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