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                Wishing you and your family much happiness and success living together! It will never be a dull moment at your house!  
                
                    posted by
                    Butterfly-1950
                     on October 13, 2012 at 7:40 AM
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                    Thanks for explaining UtahJay - and I understand now...
                
                I'd been living practically alone - and now have a family of 5, including 3 little ones under 7 years old, and another dog, a cat (moved in yesterday), and a parrot and fish on their way to joining us too...Intimidating? Or just downright scary sometimes? Yep!!  
 
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 13, 2012 at 4:42 AM
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                Just meaning that change, even a good change has a way of making us think more than we should sometimes, worrying if things don't go as planned. At least this old worry wort does. Sorry if I said it wrong.
                
                    posted by
                    UtahJay
                     on October 13, 2012 at 12:47 AM
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                    True, JimmyA
                
                And we use 'em all!! ANy excuse to get together and party!!
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:35 PM
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                    She has always had it in her, Justi.
                
                As my son says, she is not changing, she is just realising what was happening, and is taking steps to fix it. She is a brave lass, with her heart in the right place...she just needed to find it.
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:34 PM
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                    Intimidation, UtahJay??
                
                How so?
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:33 PM
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                    You know it isn't all easy, TAPS. 
                
                But it's getting better...and that counts! I expect it will get easier as we go along.
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:31 PM
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                    LOL - either one Straightforward!
                
                Both are good!
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:29 PM
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                    Actually, Kabu, I am seeing what she was going through, some of it 
                
                by lack of knowing what to do, I guess. SO far, so good! You guys are all special too!! I can't believe he ate them all!!

                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:28 PM
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                    LOL, WIley - In my present situation
                
                sometimes being alone now & then is not a bad thing!!
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:25 PM
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                    Oh yeh, Nautijkos
                
                Mine was big, and so was my son's!!
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:24 PM
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                    Yep - there's always bumps in the road, CCT
                
                but caring and respect are the tools to negotiate those bumps!
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:23 PM
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                    It's nice to host family & friends, isn't it, FSI?
                
                We will use any occasion to get together!
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:22 PM
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                    It really is looking like it will happen, Pat_B,
                
                I love the girl, and hope it does. They are both trying and the little lads are soooo happy!
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:21 PM
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                    True, I guess food4thought
                
                But here in QUebec the Quebecois don't really celebrate it - although most English speaking families do. It is much bigger in USA...or even other provinces in Canada.
                
                    posted by
                    adnohr
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:20 PM
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                See? Sometimes ya just never know! Certain traditions can have a way of bringing . . . or keeping . . . families together. 
                
                    posted by
                    JimmyA
                     on October 12, 2012 at 5:23 AM
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                    Beautiful Queen Mother
                
                You are working miracles there. That was so great to have your DIL helping, doing things she has not wanted to do before. It is great. You have many gifts dear lady.
                
                    posted by
                    Justi
                     on October 12, 2012 at 2:11 AM
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                I can see the happiness in your words, the smile on your post, which of course makes me smile too. I also see just a wee bit of intimidation, but worry not it will work out if you all want it to...Right?
                
                    posted by
                    UtahJay
                     on October 12, 2012 at 12:07 AM
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                Such a great report...and you make it all sound so easy.  
                
                    posted by
                    TAPS.
                     on October 11, 2012 at 4:34 PM
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                    Great going, adnohr. Or should I say great coming?
                
                
                
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                    Straightforward
                     on October 11, 2012 at 4:12 PM
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                    perhaps she will be able to cope much better with your unflappable 
                
                self there so that she feels there is more support for her. Someone else does some of the kitchen or the children she doesn't feel trapped or that she will be judged and has lacked the self esteem to believe in what she can do who she can cope with. I just pray for you all to become a happy healthy in mind and body family.You are very sepcial to us...
  ps he ate all the lamingtons!!!!
                
                    posted by
                    Kabu
                     on October 11, 2012 at 3:43 PM
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                    adnohr
                
                I'm just happy you're not lonesome and alone. God Bless you sis.
                
                    posted by
                    WileyJohn
                     on October 11, 2012 at 2:19 PM
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                    adnohr
                
                It's great to see the sun rising again over that relationship, and I'm sure your smile was HUGE...

                
                    posted by
                    Nautikos
                     on October 11, 2012 at 11:18 AM
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                Not so good being alone is it adnohr, nothing will ever run smoothly, but it is as good as it gets. 
 
                
                    posted by
                    C_C_T
                     on October 11, 2012 at 11:01 AM
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                That is nice how you all had a Thanksgiving get together. I like having them at my house.
                
                    posted by
                    FormerStudentIntern
                     on October 11, 2012 at 9:44 AM
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                    Oh, I'm smiling, but there are tears in my eyes. I'm very hopeful
                
                and touched... What a sweet post, dear Adnohr. :)
                
                    posted by
                    Pat_B
                     on October 11, 2012 at 9:13 AM
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                    Cool...
                
                I wish they would move our thanksgivng, better weather, more time till Christmas.
                
                    posted by
                    food4thought
                     on October 11, 2012 at 9:06 AM
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