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Re: You have all my sympathy. The paperwork nearly drove Wiley and I

what drives me crazy other than the redundancy of it is that he keeps telling me to do it all...

posted by Annicita on September 21, 2012 at 6:23 PM | link to this | reply

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its driving me crazy!!!

posted by Annicita on September 21, 2012 at 6:19 PM | link to this | reply

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nope  but when is the gov't a good mix with anything?

posted by Annicita on September 21, 2012 at 6:15 PM | link to this | reply

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ty cct   we did talk about me going back in january again today...now we arent sure...just holding off on everything ...i have a job interview on monday...

posted by Annicita on September 21, 2012 at 6:15 PM | link to this | reply

Re: So sorry to hear, Annicita...

we are too and ty...everyday is a new challenge with the light at the end of the tunnel so far away

posted by Annicita on September 21, 2012 at 6:13 PM | link to this | reply

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ty utah...and yw as usual...no there was no joy just typical gov't bureaucracy....missing him terribly 

posted by Annicita on September 21, 2012 at 6:09 PM | link to this | reply

Re: So many stresses...!

thanks ciel...but right now we are postponing his coming here until we have more money coming in ...read update on hubby 2 

posted by Annicita on September 21, 2012 at 6:07 PM | link to this | reply

You have all my sympathy. The paperwork nearly drove Wiley and I

to the loony house and often me to tears.

posted by Kabu on September 21, 2012 at 12:23 PM | link to this | reply

Paperwork can create a lot of stress. I've seen it happen lots of time between my parents.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on September 21, 2012 at 10:26 AM | link to this | reply

It sounds very frustrating but I guess that love and government are never going to be an easy mix...

posted by lionreign on September 21, 2012 at 3:27 AM | link to this | reply

yes well life is never all love and honey one can say things face to face and give a grin and it does not matter. Try to be patient A. your new hubby probably feels a tiny bit hurt, he wanted you to go over to him. He has made a big concession in his mind probably, it is the way a man thinks. Fortunately he loves you and why not.   

posted by C_C_T on September 21, 2012 at 1:04 AM | link to this | reply

So sorry to hear, Annicita...

Distance fraught with tensions can overwhelm, especially in a situation such as yours and your hubby's. If the love is real and strong, it will survive, though! Glad things calmed down; Hang in there, we're all rooting for you guys to be together and living in blissful peace.

posted by Katray2 on September 20, 2012 at 7:33 PM | link to this | reply

There is no such joy as that one gets dealing with state or federal employees. I almost think that I would rather go to the dentist. I feel for you. and I thank you ever so much.

posted by UtahJay on September 20, 2012 at 7:09 PM | link to this | reply

So many stresses...!

And it seems that you have been running around, leaping through hoops, being given wrong information, or held back  information... No wonder you've both had your fill of it!

I send you happy and calming energies...   All will be well!

posted by Ciel on September 20, 2012 at 5:46 PM | link to this | reply