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yes he has attorneys helping him
posted by
Lanetay
on September 15, 2012 at 11:58 PM
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Your son needs to start with some medical documentation; without that they will surely deny his application! sam 
posted by
sam444
on September 15, 2012 at 8:43 PM
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I dont know how expensive it was to go out on your own, but unless you had a roomate you cant live in CA alone, its four times more expensive there than here, and I am sure we arent the lowest place to live.
posted by
Lanetay
on September 14, 2012 at 9:41 AM
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that is for certain
posted by
Lanetay
on September 14, 2012 at 9:39 AM
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I dont know how long you were alone, but with me its been almost 29 years and we all lived together for all those years. We are just close
posted by
Lanetay
on September 14, 2012 at 9:39 AM
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Its no wonder then women are always so resilient and manage to take on the sole responsibility of making a good life for their kids and themselves. Men normally have it easy I guess having to only look after themselves after a divorce.

posted by
shobana
on September 14, 2012 at 12:12 AM
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I was divorced and raised my three children without a husband or any interest from their father. They went to work early, to school in time and got out on their own early. My daughter and I are close but we do not share in each other's business or life except to visit. I love her and she loves me but our individual lives comes first with each of us. I don't understand it any other way. Just like you said we all do it our way and don't understand the other ways. Be blessed.
posted by
Justi
on September 13, 2012 at 11:35 PM
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I know its a new area for me and I use to try those all the time but nothing ever developed now it would be even harder in a new area
posted by
Lanetay
on September 13, 2012 at 11:04 PM
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there is nothing wrong with being close to your children no matter what age they are!
as far as getting out....check online for local groups that cater to your age group....church, community center etc....and then get out and enjoy yourself!
posted by
Annicita
on September 13, 2012 at 7:17 PM
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you are so right
posted by
Lanetay
on September 13, 2012 at 4:51 PM
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I believe that, no matter what, it will always be you and your kids. Motherhood comes first! 
posted by
JimmyA
on September 13, 2012 at 1:48 PM
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Re: nice post darling and it thrills me to read that you are happy in your dear
the issue with money, the problems were not my childrens fault just a lot of bad luck, dont worry about me I will survive and as long as they do what they say they will do for me when I am unable to do for myself that is all I can ask
posted by
Lanetay
on September 13, 2012 at 10:57 AM
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nice post darling and it thrills me to read that you are happy in your dear
little home that you have been decorating to your liking and planting your garden. That you are close to your Children is wonderful especially as we get older and it must be nice to feel that they will eventually be there to give you a hand if needed.
I understand that it would be nice to have some male company at times and i wish that for you, ...but because we your friends here love you and have concerns for you, we worry at times that financially your Children should at least be independent if not helping you out. None of what we comment is meant to hurt though, it is just loving concern.
posted by
Kabu
on September 13, 2012 at 10:23 AM
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with me its one sided
posted by
Lanetay
on September 13, 2012 at 10:01 AM
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One never knows what to expect when it comes to love...
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on September 13, 2012 at 9:29 AM
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