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I have never been married, but I do believe you when you say it is tough. Many people jump into marriage without thinking about all the aspects of it. Yes, marriage can be a wonderful thing but all good things have a bad side too. You got to be able to love them when things are good or when they are bad. You made a commitment to do so, but so many are quick to run when things get tough. I think the vows that one takes at a wedding have become words with no meaning and this is why the divorce rate is so high. I'm just rambling, but somewhere in all that was a well placed thought.

posted by LiviJay on July 25, 2012 at 8:13 PM | link to this | reply

I made a few bad choices in my lifetime too, but had always thought of marrying one day. I didn't meet my wife until I was 40, but it was well worth the wait! We've been married now for ten years, and it couldn't be better. I know not everyone can be as fortunate. Hey, some days you bite the dog, some days the dog bites you! But we learn, grow, and move on . . .

posted by JimmyA on July 19, 2012 at 1:30 PM | link to this | reply

This is such a thoughtful post. I am not married, but I was once crazy enough to think of marrying any guy I see as an escape from my reality life, to eacape from the unwanted obligation from my family and other personal matters. Somehow, that didn't happen in any ways. I did meet some guys, dated them, and learned about them. Most of them wanted to sincerely marry me and treat me as a wife as long as I take care of them. But only one that was so bad that he almost blinded me with his kindness and sweet-talking me that he would swear to take care good care of me until he dies. Well, he did take care of me but with no love at all. From there I could already see myself crying every night and regretting my choice. I told him how I felt on him being too cool; all he told me is that I complained too much and definitely had him comparing with others.

Now I'm glad I am free from any relationships. The only one thin I want to so now is to achieve my career.

posted by Eleanor_Jazz on July 18, 2012 at 11:11 PM | link to this | reply

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