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Re: lustorlove

thanks so much for the kind words

posted by Lanetay on May 26, 2012 at 10:38 AM | link to this | reply

lustorlove

Sorry  time got upset but you don't have to suffer any pain from your daughter after all you do for your kids.Far as I'm concerned you're one of folks CNN is looking for, a hero mom so you jusy relax and take it easy and be proud and happy for yourself. We love ya Kabu and me.

posted by WileyJohn on May 26, 2012 at 10:07 AM | link to this | reply

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yeah but thats a lot to ask for

posted by Lanetay on May 25, 2012 at 4:48 PM | link to this | reply

I feel your daughter should be more flexible.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on May 25, 2012 at 4:28 PM | link to this | reply

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she needs to be but she isnt unless it involves her

posted by Lanetay on May 25, 2012 at 11:31 AM | link to this | reply

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I guess it was because she had cooked the dinner and expected me to be there to eat it, but anyother day I would of had to wait for it to be done

posted by Lanetay on May 25, 2012 at 11:30 AM | link to this | reply

A contractor or repair person who claims to be coming at a certain time, and then is either very late, or a no-show, is nothing new or unusual. But sometimes allowances need to be made, and it sounds as though your daughter needs to be a tad more flexible. 

posted by JimmyA on May 25, 2012 at 11:22 AM | link to this | reply

I guess that my family is just a lot more easy going on foiled plans.   If something falls through, we just do our own thing.  No one ever stews if someone backs out or is late. 

posted by TAPS. on May 25, 2012 at 11:07 AM | link to this | reply

Re: eventually it will all blow over and calm down

he is a lot cheaper than Home Depot

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2012 at 8:34 PM | link to this | reply

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that is the way I felt, but she didnt see it that way

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2012 at 8:33 PM | link to this | reply

Re: she sounds tired and irritated. I would wait for an invitation

its just since we moved here she has always fed me except when she was working those really late hours

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2012 at 8:33 PM | link to this | reply

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who is going to give up home cooked meals cooked by someone besides yourself, its time for her to take care of me

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2012 at 8:32 PM | link to this | reply

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yes I know you are right and she has always been like that

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2012 at 8:31 PM | link to this | reply

I think your daughter is a control freak! It's okay for her to be delayed but not you! I think I would start eating and home and find some friends to hang out with and let her be on her own for a spell! At the very least until she shows some respect for you; to make you feel as though you are being punished is just as wrong as it comes! She needs a taste of the real world and you should see to it that she gets it no matter how much you love her! She hasn't been all that thankful for the things you have done for her and I find that to be unsettling! She is used to you doing what meets her needs but she is not returning anything to you, not even respect! Take a motherly stand and be firm, it's for her own good, too! Just my humble thoughts! sam 

posted by sam444 on May 24, 2012 at 8:27 PM | link to this | reply

It may be a bit co-dependant to need to have dinner together daily and allow such episodes to happen. Eating together occassionally is one thing but daily, I wonder.

posted by Justi on May 24, 2012 at 7:21 PM | link to this | reply

eventually it will all blow over and calm down

then you can explain to her

but that is one contractor i would never  hire

posted by Xeno-x on May 24, 2012 at 7:07 PM | link to this | reply

I would just follow my stomach. If your hungry then eat and tell her you couldn't wait any longer. You both had good reason and IMHO there should not be blame placed on either of you.

posted by BrightIrish on May 24, 2012 at 6:52 PM | link to this | reply

she sounds tired and irritated. I would wait for an invitation

not go over there for a bit but what do I know, I haven't made a great success with my Children.

posted by Kabu on May 24, 2012 at 6:21 PM | link to this | reply