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I had to deal directly with people in a confrontational mode for they seemed not to understand or get it any other way. Professionally, I always was direct. This challenge among family and friends was a war of wills and words! I had to accept that ignorance was a factor and that I had to return to teaching mode on adults. A change for all has made it possible for me to return to what I love. I love it here and you, my friends.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on May 23, 2012 at 1:47 AM
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Glad to Be Back
I had to deal directly with people in a confrontational mode for they seemed not to understand or get it any other way. Professionally, I always was direct. This challenge among family and friends was a war of wills and words! I had to accept that ignorance was a factor and that I had to return to teaching mode on adults. A change for all has made it possible for me to return to what I love. I love it here and you, my friends.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on May 23, 2012 at 1:46 AM
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Welcome back! This can lead to a sad and bitter situation.
posted by
BrightIrish
on May 22, 2012 at 7:10 PM
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I think that when people feel that they have nothing to contribute they are more inclined to try and claim other's work in an effort to hide thier perceived inadequacy. It's all rather sad....
posted by
lionreign
on May 22, 2012 at 3:05 AM
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There's an important thought here.....
posted by
Straightforward
on May 21, 2012 at 9:03 PM
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It amazes me as well regarding those who are quick to get the credit when they haven't done anything! But, for me, they have to live with themselves and it always seems to come out in the end and they are left red faced and discredited! sam 
posted by
sam444
on May 21, 2012 at 6:07 PM
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Dr. JPT
¸ There’s a needed a win situation and an attitude of responsibility love. BC-A, Bill’s R®st
posted by
BC-A
on May 21, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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Long time no see...I always find it fascinating to see how the credit or blame is accepted and/or passed on.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on May 21, 2012 at 9:20 AM
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Dr JPT
Wonderful to have you back luv, interesting post full of truth.
posted by
WileyJohn
on May 21, 2012 at 8:33 AM
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I cannot tell you how nice it is to have you back and yet I just did. I think the rub comes when we take credit for the good things and turn over those things that cause pain or harm. Maybe the proper word would be responsibility.
posted by
UtahJay
on May 21, 2012 at 7:49 AM
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i try not to know people like that these days. The beauty of becoming a
retired Ostrich!!
posted by
Kabu
on May 21, 2012 at 7:43 AM
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Interesting analysis. Which is worse . . . taking credit for something you didn't do, or passing blame onto someone for something negative that you did do? Hmmm . . . food for thought for another day! 
posted by
JimmyA
on May 21, 2012 at 7:35 AM
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Very wisely conveyed...Fakers and takers are usually fragile at their core
Strength of balance matters, imho..
posted by
Katray2
on May 21, 2012 at 7:09 AM
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Goodness I thought I remembered your writing. Of course it is so sad when someone has put in the effort, just to see it slip away so ruthlessly. I do hope you have overcome your
previous challenges.
posted by
C_C_T
on May 21, 2012 at 7:04 AM
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