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Re: Lustor
well I have always locked but I was use to people being in the house
posted by
Lanetay
on May 1, 2012 at 8:27 AM
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Lustor
Your car and home need to be locked at all times. I live in a very small town with a vey low crime rate but I feel it is simply prudent to do my part, that is keep my doors locked.
posted by
Justi
on May 1, 2012 at 12:06 AM
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Re: Yeah, it needs to sink in you that you are safe......
yeah I just miss the sounds of the others in the house, but most the time I like being alone
posted by
Lanetay
on April 30, 2012 at 7:45 PM
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Re: Oh darlin' I would lock up. It may be real safe but you are vulnerable on
right
posted by
Lanetay
on April 30, 2012 at 7:44 PM
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Yeah, it needs to sink in you that you are safe......
-Safe or unsafe are probabilities anyways.
posted by
Straightforward
on April 30, 2012 at 7:31 PM
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Oh darlin' I would lock up. It may be real safe but you are vulnerable on
your own and hey if tall dark and handsome is knocking one can always unlock a door real quick!
posted by
Kabu
on April 30, 2012 at 6:53 PM
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you are probably right considering this is a first for me in 68 years
posted by
Lanetay
on April 30, 2012 at 6:25 PM
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It will take time for you to feel safe but you'll feel more and more secure as time passes. 

posted by
BrightIrish
on April 30, 2012 at 5:30 PM
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I do that now, but there is no way to really lock my windows, in CA we had double locks
posted by
Lanetay
on April 30, 2012 at 1:14 PM
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Lock your doors and windows girl. That won't solve everything but it helps.
posted by
TAPS.
on April 30, 2012 at 12:23 PM
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as long as they dont get too nosy
posted by
Lanetay
on April 30, 2012 at 10:27 AM
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I noticed a lot of creaks and the like to when I first moved in. I got used to it quickly...Of course I have nosy neighbors, who watch the house. That helps a bit too.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on April 30, 2012 at 10:03 AM
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yes you are right, I am the last house around the corner and not too many can find me the first time
posted by
Lanetay
on April 30, 2012 at 9:35 AM
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I live in a very safe area but I always lock my doors; why invite trouble! Just do the things that make you feel safe and I believe the anxiety will abate over time! sam 
posted by
sam444
on April 30, 2012 at 9:30 AM
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