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thank you

posted by Lanetay on April 11, 2012 at 4:31 PM | link to this | reply

Re: lustorlove

life really sucks sometimes

posted by Lanetay on April 11, 2012 at 4:30 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Lustor

its hard since that has been my life for more than 44 years

posted by Lanetay on April 11, 2012 at 4:30 PM | link to this | reply

Re: I know that you want your daughter to be happy but I do appreciate how

this has been the most trying 3 months in a very long time

posted by Lanetay on April 11, 2012 at 4:29 PM | link to this | reply

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well nothing went as planned his court date was cancelled because of the judge taking ill, its so unfair.

posted by Lanetay on April 11, 2012 at 4:28 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove

I have to stand aside and say that Justi has really given you an emotional path to try and follow.God Bless y'all tomorrow.

posted by WileyJohn on April 10, 2012 at 10:01 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor

They are only given you for the time it takes to teach them to live on their own. Then you are to let go. It is hard, but it is normal and they need to have a life seperate of parents. You need friends. You may be able to get out go to things that are happening and meet people your age. I think you need prayer too, I hate to see you so sad about things you want to use to make your kids happy. Be blessed with friendships.

posted by Justi on April 10, 2012 at 9:30 PM | link to this | reply

I know that you want your daughter to be happy but I do appreciate how

you trust us with your inner fears and thoughts. We know we have to let go but it doesn't mean as a parent that we don't feel it. I miss my estranged son and his family every day of my life and I always will.

posted by Kabu on April 10, 2012 at 7:59 PM | link to this | reply

i hope it goes well

posted by Annicita on April 10, 2012 at 6:02 PM | link to this | reply

I believe you will find yourself prepared for either outcome.

posted by BrightIrish on April 10, 2012 at 5:23 PM | link to this | reply

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yes its only been these last 6 months that  I have experienced this degree of changes

posted by Lanetay on April 10, 2012 at 9:48 AM | link to this | reply

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thank you so much these were very kind words, and yes I know she needs her happiness but unfortunatley I havent found mine so I depend on my kids which is not right

posted by Lanetay on April 10, 2012 at 9:47 AM | link to this | reply

It can be tough to prepare for different outcomes and all of the variances that can come with them.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on April 10, 2012 at 9:34 AM | link to this | reply

There are times when we must set aside our emotions for the greater good. This is one of those times! I know you will miss the fellowship but at the same time she has a life to live and it doesn't get any better than being with the one you love. The biggest thing for you is that the changing keep coming one after another and you haven't had a chance to get settled in! I pray he gets out because that is her happiness no matter how much she loves you! They need to experience all the joy of this union and for you to be supportive as you have been. There will come a time for you to branch out so to speak and I hope you embrace this with verve! If the worst case scenario does happen then you will be the cornerstone for your daughter and I might add that you are very adept at this so she is in goods hands! The theme should be one day at a time and everyone should strive to achieve what they want, no matter the obstacles, no matter the length of time, no matter what! God bless y'all and may justice prevail! sam 

posted by sam444 on April 10, 2012 at 9:24 AM | link to this | reply