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                what matters is that you followed your heart and you are at peace with that decision....god bless
                
                    posted by
                    Annicita
                     on February 17, 2012 at 9:16 PM
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                I'm a homebody, so I myself would stay home.
                
                    posted by
                    FormerStudentIntern
                     on February 17, 2012 at 10:38 AM
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                    Re: I would stay home
                
                Thank you for your encouragement.
                
                    posted by
                    Butterfly-1950
                     on February 17, 2012 at 6:06 AM
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                Thanks, TAPS. You are right. Although my husband wanted me to go, we both realize that this "is" his mission and if our other member of our family (our cat) wasn't dying, I probably would have planned to go. No matter how hard the trip might be.  I think this will be a good learning lesson in love and absence making the heart grow fonder!!  Thanks for your encouragement.
                
                    posted by
                    Butterfly-1950
                     on February 17, 2012 at 6:05 AM
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                What does your husband think?
It shouldn't really matter to you what anyone else thinks. 
                
                    posted by
                    TAPS.
                     on February 16, 2012 at 8:54 PM
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                    I would stay home
                
                This sounds like his mission...don't let the opinion of others color what is right for you.  If you go then it won't be with the same spirit as your husband.  Labor of love should be just that LOVE!
  Stay home, write stories and plan a wonderful surprise when he gets home..that can be your contribution!
                
                    posted by
                    Bel_Marshall
                     on February 16, 2012 at 7:31 PM
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                    I would have to stay home,  too much work and too short a time frame to
                
                do it all in and all...I am one of those people who pay to help to build those wells rather than go. you did right for you and pusscat.
                
                    posted by
                    Kabu
                     on February 16, 2012 at 6:40 PM
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