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what matters is that you followed your heart and you are at peace with that decision....god bless

posted by Annicita on February 17, 2012 at 9:16 PM | link to this | reply

I'm a homebody, so I myself would stay home.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on February 17, 2012 at 10:38 AM | link to this | reply

Re: I would stay home

Thank you for your encouragement.

posted by Butterfly-1950 on February 17, 2012 at 6:06 AM | link to this | reply

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Thanks, TAPS. You are right. Although my husband wanted me to go, we both realize that this "is" his mission and if our other member of our family (our cat) wasn't dying, I probably would have planned to go. No matter how hard the trip might be.  I think this will be a good learning lesson in love and absence making the heart grow fonder!!  Thanks for your encouragement.

posted by Butterfly-1950 on February 17, 2012 at 6:05 AM | link to this | reply

What does your husband think?
It shouldn't really matter to you what anyone else thinks.

posted by TAPS. on February 16, 2012 at 8:54 PM | link to this | reply

I would stay home

This sounds like his mission...don't let the opinion of others color what is right for you.  If you go then it won't be with the same spirit as your husband.  Labor of love should be just that LOVE!

Stay home, write stories and plan a wonderful surprise when he gets home..that can be your contribution!

posted by Bel_Marshall on February 16, 2012 at 7:31 PM | link to this | reply

I would have to stay home, too much work and too short a time frame to

do it all in and all...I am one of those people who pay to help to build those wells rather than go. you did right for you and pusscat.

posted by Kabu on February 16, 2012 at 6:40 PM | link to this | reply