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But the things they are expected to handle is something they cant do on their own.

posted by Lanetay on February 3, 2012 at 4:33 PM | link to this | reply

You said it. That is what it is... They have to be able to get out of their own problems, even very bad ones or they will never be able to be there for their children to answer questions not solve problems. You take care of yourself and enjoy some of your life for the fact that it is yours.

posted by Justi on February 3, 2012 at 4:21 PM | link to this | reply

Re: YOU are the best Mother, ever!

kids came keep you hoping

posted by Lanetay on February 3, 2012 at 7:11 AM | link to this | reply

YOU are the best Mother, ever!

It's a hard job being a Mother and no matter how old they are we still worry.

I'm going through a lot right now, as well, with both my kids.

Love ya.

posted by hazel_st_cricket on February 3, 2012 at 3:22 AM | link to this | reply

Re: lustorlove

will I ever be lucky enough to find a man like you?

posted by Lanetay on February 2, 2012 at 3:49 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove

Your life in a nutshell always seems to leave you worrying and worrying about your children who are adults now really. I wish you could find some peace of mind for you my friend, I shall pray for that for you.

posted by WileyJohn on February 2, 2012 at 2:09 PM | link to this | reply

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but I dont live it as I am a hermit

posted by Lanetay on February 2, 2012 at 10:27 AM | link to this | reply

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yes it does

posted by Lanetay on February 2, 2012 at 10:26 AM | link to this | reply

They are very fortunate to have such a dedicated mother! But, you have a life to live, too! I am there for my children as well but I still do what I want first! It is a tough situation for both of your children! When my daughter was and is having a tough time in this relationship I simply told her to stop dating needy men! lol I believe it will all work out in the end, the hard part is getting there! That's why it is good for a parent to be supportive! But, YOU HAVE A LIFE TO LIVE, TOO! sam 

posted by sam444 on February 2, 2012 at 10:07 AM | link to this | reply

I find that being there goes a long way.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on February 2, 2012 at 9:35 AM | link to this | reply