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I was telling my son most the time the parents arent that crazy about  their kids choices, I know my parents didnt like my choice in husbands and I guess they knew more than I did, after 20 years of marriage

posted by Lanetay on December 15, 2011 at 7:31 PM | link to this | reply

Re: lustorlove

she was going for that at first but now she is not so for it

posted by Lanetay on December 15, 2011 at 7:30 PM | link to this | reply

I remember when my daughter went off to be with her boyfriend (at least an 8 hour drive away from where we lived).  It wasn't easy to "let her go"  but now, 4 years later, she's with a new and much nicer man and lives 5 minutes away.  I think we just have to let our kids make their choices even if we don't agree with them at the time.  

posted by Troosha on December 15, 2011 at 4:54 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove

Your son had a good thought about her moving to the U.S. rather than him coming here.Like in Canada he'd have to wait for a Permenent Residency card and that can take more than 3 years as we found out for Kabu. Now, a person can't work here without a Permanent Residency card anymore than a person could work in the U.S. without a Green Card.Just thought I'd give you and son that thought.

posted by WileyJohn on December 15, 2011 at 12:36 PM | link to this | reply

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he is giving it more thought then before

posted by Lanetay on December 15, 2011 at 10:45 AM | link to this | reply

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I think so because he so happy to be around us

posted by Lanetay on December 15, 2011 at 10:45 AM | link to this | reply

Re: maybe it is time for your son to lay it on the line to the Gal Pal

yea that is the way its going, he thinks she should come here to visit its all him spending the little money he has

posted by Lanetay on December 15, 2011 at 10:44 AM | link to this | reply

As time moves on I am sure he will see the whole picture! I am pleased he is having a good time there, too! sam 

posted by sam444 on December 15, 2011 at 10:30 AM | link to this | reply

I have a feeling that there is going to be a resolution to this soon.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on December 15, 2011 at 9:41 AM | link to this | reply

maybe it is time for your son to lay it on the line to the Gal Pal

Tell her he can have a house and work and everything where you are and if she is serious about loving him...she should visit...then work something out throught the courts re the child with her ex. otherwise...........well it's email friends only.

posted by Kabu on December 15, 2011 at 9:18 AM | link to this | reply