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I feel that you are not in a good place, and I hope that your
situation improves, there are lots of things that you could do to change and make your situation better, question is, are you doing it?
I dont understand why you would put yourself in jeopardy of losing your job, just to speak with someone you may or may not ever be friends with. Someone that you may or may not even help. I would understand it if she was a good friend and you had a deep bonding love between you. Your self sabotaging behavior is not causing you any joy, and your first and foremost reponsibility is for yourself, to be in a joyous life. Only then can you truly help others. If I were in your place (and of cours I have been there too) I would now put all my energy and all my actions on only one goal, to improve my life and make it abundant, joyful, blessed, loved etc etc etc. Anything that would stand in my way of that I would not pursue.
all my love and best wishes to see you on that platform soon.
posted by
Tzippy
on May 4, 2011 at 1:03 AM
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w{I hope that you’ll find the answers. BC-A, Bill’s R®s
posted by
BC-A
on May 3, 2011 at 8:36 PM
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I think you did the right thing! But it can get out of hand and you will at some point have to let go and trust that the Lord will come to her aid! I am so sorry regarding your finances, it can be weighing on the mind! It shouldn't matter on the returns because if it is a policy it should be honored at every juncture~! I have you in my prayers, too! sam
posted by
sam444
on May 3, 2011 at 9:31 AM
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of course it isn't a Golden rule...but it is a fact that the people who
really do commit suicide are inclined to tell no one...just go ahead and do it, and leave a note and a lot of unanswered questions behind and heartache for others. Those that tell are crying out for help.
Well you tried to help but don't let this person feed off you now because that isn't helping her if she just leans on you until you are beaten down.It will just exhaust you. Bless you, you are such a sweet soul.
posted by
Kabu
on May 3, 2011 at 7:15 AM
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