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Move on, don't get caught up/. Life is bigger than you think.
posted by
RoseyP
on November 28, 2010 at 9:42 AM
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A difficult question that relies very much on circumstances.
Either he is not ready to commit or can't handle commitment, or is lying about the feelings he has.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 27, 2010 at 5:47 PM
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straight, don't waste your time, there are many jerks around......but there
will be someone nice for you waiting too ........So get your strength and move on .....you make your best, it's your life .....Do not waste your time for the unhealthy relations ..
if someone true , let him show you in actions, not in words......there are a whole lot of people to waste others time, time fly faster than the blink of your own eye .......
make the best in your life on every day until the last breath, you will be in my prayers....
posted by
Star5_
on November 27, 2010 at 4:42 PM
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stay a way from that route babe.. he is not sure what he wants to do .....
it's not good to sit around for someone who is not sure .....
i hope this is all happening on face to face , if it's on online ........ooooooooooops, best of luck to escape from such stupids....
posted by
Star5_
on November 27, 2010 at 4:39 PM
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if someone u love says he reciprocates ur love, but is constantly saying no
If he believes in marriage but is saying no then there are usually only two reasons why not. The first is that he has been married or is married secretly and wont marry again even though he believes in the institution of marriage itself, or the other reason, the second reason is that although he believes in marriage he looking for the perfect woman in his set of ideals and just isn't ready for marriage until he is absolutely positive that he isn't making a mistake.
Be careful.
posted by
Cheerygirl
on November 26, 2010 at 2:31 PM
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He may well believe in marriage
but if it's not with this person then he'll continue to believe it lies elsewhere; it's only a matter of time I'm afraid
posted by
malcolm
on November 26, 2010 at 5:42 AM
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Straight --- Happy Thanksgiving to you dear one. and as far as this situation - dilemma - I think its clear that 'he' is not 'ready for marriage' - seems no matter whom - even if he speaks well of marriage...it's just not his time maybe? Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on November 25, 2010 at 8:34 PM
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I don't think that the relationship is going to end well...
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on November 25, 2010 at 1:56 PM
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Hi,
I wouldn't stay with a man who didn't value and respect me enough to put a ring on my finger.
Marriage can be a scary thing for both parties, but it can also be a wonderfully joyous blessing when entered into with graciousness, dignity, honesty and respect. In my opinion, it is essential that Christ is at the center of the foundation of a marriage.
I wish you well and hope this is helpful.
posted by
Amanda__
on November 25, 2010 at 8:59 AM
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Personally it wouldn't bother me but if one party feels uncomfortable about it, it will affect the relationship sooner or later.
posted by
dizzilizzi
on November 25, 2010 at 5:15 AM
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He's either not found the right one or he has commitment issues! sam
posted by
sam444
on November 25, 2010 at 1:55 AM
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Well I like diamonds, but I wouldn't buy one. I would think he can't help it, this does not feel right, he would love to but he can't. Sometimes it is possible to just love someone, full stop.
posted by
C_C_T
on November 24, 2010 at 11:09 PM
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