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Re: Your acceptance and forgiveness of others is healthy for you --
I have to work on it harder some days versus others Pat but I keep working on it.
posted by
Bel_
on September 20, 2010 at 10:47 AM
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Re: I agree, looking forward is easier than back.
Forward is more fun too Cringe!
posted by
Bel_
on September 20, 2010 at 10:46 AM
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Re: Bel
Naut,
It's good to be back!!!
posted by
Bel_
on September 20, 2010 at 10:46 AM
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Amen to that Sam!!!!
posted by
Bel_
on September 20, 2010 at 10:45 AM
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Corbin,
So good to see you are around and so busy! Have fun on your adventures!
posted by
Bel_
on September 20, 2010 at 10:45 AM
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Re: I just go with this one/
Thank you SF!
posted by
Bel_
on September 20, 2010 at 10:44 AM
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Re: Bel, its already been said by morethan one person below....
Thanks Rumor! The forget part is always tough LOL!
posted by
Bel_
on September 20, 2010 at 10:44 AM
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Bel, its already been said by morethan one person below....
letting go of all that extra baggage and crap we carry around is the best thing for us to do..hanging on to it as some do, it seems to in some way become a safety net for them, but no thanks!
forgive, forget (this can be tough), and move on..
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posted by
Rumor
on September 20, 2010 at 7:27 AM
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I just go with this one/
posted by
Straightforward
on September 19, 2010 at 3:17 AM
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BEL!!!!
I am so happy to see you back......please forgive me for not responding quicker...but I am on the road like 24 out of 30 days and just have limited time to visit blogit......
I have been catching up and reading your posts.....I'll be chiming in in a day or two! I get home tonight for 4 days before leaving for 11 days.....
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on September 19, 2010 at 3:10 AM
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I think forgiveness is for us and as you say it does give great peace! I have had a rough go of things in life that were out of my control and it's not what happens so much as how we overcome what has happened! sam
posted by
sam444
on September 17, 2010 at 3:10 AM
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Bel
So nice to see you back! And I never forgive anyone, ever...
posted by
Nautikos
on September 16, 2010 at 4:26 PM
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I agree, looking forward is easier than back.
posted by
CringeintheUSA
on September 16, 2010 at 4:17 PM
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Your acceptance and forgiveness of others is healthy for you --
something to do with a saying: the vessel that holds the bitterness gets eaten away. Your decision about how to deal with your mother is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself, and by extension, for everyone who loves you.
posted by
Pat_B
on September 16, 2010 at 12:53 PM
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Re: Shelly
I understand, bel
posted by
shelly_b
on September 16, 2010 at 8:39 AM
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Re: letting go thats tough but good
It can be tough but it sure feels better than hanging onto the garbage and dragging around with me. LOL!
posted by
Bel_
on September 16, 2010 at 8:30 AM
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Shelly
I didn't say I condone bad behavior nor do I allow someone to repeatedly mistreat me. I make the choice do they belong in my life or not. If this is someone who has shown a pattern of bad behavior I am not going to martyr myself and accept it either.
posted by
Bel_
on September 16, 2010 at 8:28 AM
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letting go thats tough but good
posted by
poetjpb
on September 16, 2010 at 8:28 AM
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I use to forgive people all of the time, but since I've gotten older
forgiving isn't as easy anymore. (((HUGS)))
posted by
shelly_b
on September 16, 2010 at 8:24 AM
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