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one the female doesnt the male does all the time
posted by
Lanetay
on August 10, 2010 at 9:56 AM
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I have always waited for my children to come to me to talk! sam
posted by
sam444
on August 10, 2010 at 9:31 AM
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Re: I GUESS SHE IS FINDING OUT THAT LEOPARDS SPOTS DON'T CHANGE.
qpparently it wasnt what it looked like
posted by
Lanetay
on August 9, 2010 at 11:29 PM
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Re: lustorlove
prayer isnt something I do easily
posted by
Lanetay
on August 9, 2010 at 11:28 PM
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Re: Lustorlove,
that was me for sure
posted by
Lanetay
on August 9, 2010 at 11:28 PM
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I GUESS SHE IS FINDING OUT THAT LEOPARDS SPOTS DON'T CHANGE.
posted by
Kabu
on August 9, 2010 at 8:31 PM
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lustorlove
Prayer would be helpful for this luv
posted by
WileyJohn
on August 9, 2010 at 8:20 PM
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Lustorlove,
I guess people stay together out of familiarity. It's not happy but it's what they know. People are often afraid to move on.
posted by
SpitFire70
on August 9, 2010 at 7:58 PM
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thank you
posted by
Lanetay
on August 9, 2010 at 3:11 PM
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yes thanks
posted by
Lanetay
on August 9, 2010 at 3:11 PM
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I would give her a space and hopefully things will solve themselves or she will get the help she needs through whomever that may be. Having said that you should interfere as need be if developments warrant as such.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on August 9, 2010 at 1:18 PM
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They say love and hate are opposite sides of the same coin. Perhaps a bit of time will heal the wounds for both your son and daughter. Maybe it's best just to give them space and allow them a safe haven with you.
posted by
Rockingrector_retd
on August 9, 2010 at 9:58 AM
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yes that is true but to see a grown man cry when its your son is hard
posted by
Lanetay
on August 9, 2010 at 8:54 AM
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Just love them and patiently be there for them. I know that is hard, but as adults, they must do their own thing and learn from any mistakes. It must be comforting for them to know that you care.
posted by
TAPS.
on August 9, 2010 at 8:28 AM
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Re: CONCERNED BUT CURIOUS
she is beyond teenager but acts like one sometimes, everything is ok
posted by
Lanetay
on August 8, 2010 at 10:10 PM
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yes I think I was jumping to conclusions
posted by
Lanetay
on August 8, 2010 at 10:07 PM
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she said it was her best friend she was mad at
posted by
Lanetay
on August 8, 2010 at 10:07 PM
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She claims she had a fight with one of her best friends
posted by
Lanetay
on August 8, 2010 at 10:06 PM
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CONCERNED BUT CURIOUS
Lustorlove, with my teenage daughter, I would let her know that I thought that something was bothering her and that is she needed to talk I was there. Sometimes she would be willing to talk about what was bothering her and other times she took awhile before she would open up. But teenagers as you know can be very touchy. Good luck/LBJ
posted by
MsJudy
on August 8, 2010 at 9:48 PM
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lustorlove, it's a dangerous time.
posted by
dsm_tchr
on August 8, 2010 at 9:33 PM
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Matters of the heart can really be so painful lustorlove and best left to the concerned unless they open up and ask for help imho. I hope she does so that you can be there for her.
posted by
shobana
on August 8, 2010 at 8:56 PM
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Ouch...how old is your daughter? If she's a teenager, you should tread lightly since they think everything a parent does is "meddlesome" in some way. Just to test the waters though, I would tell her that you're there for her to talk to if she wants to, whenever she wants - but say it when you feel a little safe to say it. If she's in high emotion, it will just be taken badly. I'm sure she knows she can go to you for anything, but it never hurts to reinforce the thought. Much luck to you.
posted by
NiteTide
on August 8, 2010 at 8:28 PM
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