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But when it's not the first marriage, then what? The subject of expected virginity has a lot of variables. The Bible tells us that the only one with whom a person should sleep is the one to whom they are married. According to what your mom and many others said about virginity being the best gift a woman can give her husband, that's true from both spouses. Does that mean, however, that if it's not the first marriage, there is no sacred gift? Quite a few years after I divorced, I married a widower. Although there was no virginity, each of us treasures that relationship with the other.
posted by
Gloria48
on August 15, 2010 at 11:28 AM
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Both the woman and the man's virginity should be considered sacred. How precious and how rare a case for either to wait.
posted by
Gomer
on August 5, 2010 at 12:59 PM
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I Hear what you are saying here...
It is an age old injustice against women.... When men have more than one sexual partner they are called 'STUDS', when a woman has more than one they are called 'SLUTS' - wether before or after marriage. THIS IS WRONG AND MUST CHANGE!. Thank you for bringing this up.
posted by
WaterKat
on August 2, 2010 at 3:21 AM
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I Hear what you are saying here...
It is an age old injustice against women.... When men have more than one sexual partner they are called 'STUDS', when a woman has more than one they are called 'SLUTS' - wether before or after marriage. THIS IS WRONG AND MUST CHANGE!. Thank you for bringing this up.
posted by
WaterKat
on August 2, 2010 at 3:21 AM
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We all get involved throughout our lives; and it should not matter about the past for that is what is the past! You mother had wise words, though! sam
posted by
sam444
on August 1, 2010 at 9:42 PM
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respect her past and do not judge what has been before...love her now because now is what really matters.
I wish you luck
posted by
spiderfly
on August 1, 2010 at 1:15 PM
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Your line of thought is the same as mine.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on July 31, 2010 at 4:30 PM
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adnohr
for the person who thrown me that question, hopefully my answer is acceptable.
posted by
kwentuhero
on July 31, 2010 at 3:37 PM
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I think you answered your own question "If you loved someone, then you'll be ready to accept all the consequences". That's about right in my book - I really don't think any one of us are placed to judge another.
posted by
adnohr
on July 31, 2010 at 3:24 PM
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