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Re: Maybe he needs counseling? Or another girlfriend.
he wont do either
posted by
Lanetay
on July 26, 2010 at 11:25 PM
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Maybe he needs counseling? Or another girlfriend.
posted by
shelly_b
on July 26, 2010 at 9:50 PM
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Re: say as little as possible...they may get back together. pretend to listen
I think they will eventually
posted by
Lanetay
on July 26, 2010 at 7:07 PM
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Re: Lustor,
because she is going to school and finds it too hard to have a realtionship, dumb excuse
posted by
Lanetay
on July 26, 2010 at 7:06 PM
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so you dont think he can get some help with a psychologist?
posted by
Lanetay
on July 26, 2010 at 7:05 PM
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say as little as possible...they may get back together. pretend to listen
but really write more of your fabulous poetry that we enjoy.
posted by
Kabu
on July 26, 2010 at 6:39 PM
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Lustor,
I think I may have missed something. Why are they separated? I know how hard a forced separation can be since M and I had to live across the country from each other for 4 months...and we were married! It's rough.
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 26, 2010 at 3:22 PM
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I hate those situations where I get asked what I think only to have it dismissed. The best act to undertake is to listen, I say...Given the situation I do not see the discussion of going to a psychologist as being helpful.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on July 26, 2010 at 1:52 PM
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maybe so but I will need one myself soon
posted by
Lanetay
on July 26, 2010 at 9:44 AM
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Ooh, I feel for you. Maybe he doesn't want you to actually do anything, but just to listen to him and allow him to talk. You're probably much better for him than any therapist, letting him get it all off his chest.
posted by
Rockingrector_retd
on July 26, 2010 at 9:15 AM
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every thing I tell him he doesnt want to hear so why he continues to ask me I dont know
posted by
Lanetay
on July 26, 2010 at 8:39 AM
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There is nothing you can do. It's all up to him. I went through this myself a while back. I talked about it until I know my friends were sick of me. Time helped me and it will him. Just as I was gaining my sanity my love came back and we worked things out. Now things are so much better. We both grew and we understand now what we need. Mine was a happy ending, there not all that way. My heart goes out to him and you. I hope he doesn't allow himself to become a door mat and realizes that sometimes if you walk away they start to realize what they are losing or you gain some self respect and discover that you don't need them. I wish him and you the best.
posted by
ravenmarie
on July 25, 2010 at 11:45 PM
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