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Re: I am living with my teenage son right now
well I havent had a real mate in 27 years, yes of course I have had men come and go but nothing long lasting.

posted by Lanetay on June 1, 2010 at 8:14 AM | link to this | reply

I am living with my teenage son right now

and with the rest of my children on and off, having joint custody.  I have not had a mate, though, for nearly seven years and I certainly miss that.

My best alone time is when I can take a day off and straighten up around the house or do what I want to do.  I work best alone with daylight and relax best at night with friends.  My life is exactly the opposite.

Can I divorce the work world?

posted by cpklapper on June 1, 2010 at 8:03 AM | link to this | reply

Re: lustorlov e
try 27 years without a mate

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 10:01 PM | link to this | reply

Re: I lived just with one teenage son for awhile.....I should have kept it
just  for a short time

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 10:00 PM | link to this | reply

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I am hardly ever lonely

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 9:59 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlov e
I lived alone for 7 years or more and it is very difficult to do. I much prefer having a loving mate.

posted by WileyJohn on May 31, 2010 at 9:47 PM | link to this | reply

I lived just with one teenage son for awhile.....I should have kept it
that way.....I could have avoided twenty years of pain. Alone is different to lonely....sounds like you were lonely.

posted by Kabu on May 31, 2010 at 9:23 PM | link to this | reply

I live with a houseful right now, 4 teens, 1 10 year old and my husband. But, I do understand what you are saying about being alone. When everyone is gone (Which is not often) It feels quite different. A few days, or even a week would be OK, but continually would be difficult. Hope you are not lonely anymore and things work out with you and your daughter.

posted by mariposa75 on May 31, 2010 at 8:54 PM | link to this | reply

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seems some people dont think we should have our kids with us

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 7:33 PM | link to this | reply

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nice family reunion

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 7:33 PM | link to this | reply

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yes that is a good thing

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 7:32 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove - I can understand how lonely you can be sometimes. I don't live alone..since I am married. Enjoy the time you have with your kids as I am missing one really badly with the other leaving me soon too.

posted by shobana on May 31, 2010 at 4:17 PM | link to this | reply

I do not live alone right not, but in about a month I will be. Even then I'll have my aunt, uncle and cousin next door. I know they will be over and I will go over there throughout the day.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on May 31, 2010 at 1:33 PM | link to this | reply

LoL, always been alone, don't mind it.  Go out when i like.

posted by dsm_tchr on May 31, 2010 at 1:07 PM | link to this | reply

Re: ALONE AND LONELY
I always thought I couldnt wait until I am alone and then when I am its hard to be that way

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 12:10 PM | link to this | reply

ALONE AND LONELY
I have been alone from time to time as my kids move in and out and I hate being alone/LB

posted by MsJudy on May 31, 2010 at 11:21 AM | link to this | reply

Re: I live on my own with my young children.
I personally dont see anything wrong with it, as long as things are cool with you and them

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 10:25 AM | link to this | reply

I live on my own with my young children.
I can't imagine them leaving home I wish they would live with me forever lol.

posted by _Symphony_ on May 31, 2010 at 10:19 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Lustor
when its time they will, life for my daughter she has brought a lot of it on herself, my son has matured slowly and really doesnt have a good job, he has a girlfriend, maybe someday he will marry.  I have been single for 27 years that is a big difference and never had anyone living here besides my kids.

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 10:03 AM | link to this | reply

Lustor
I need alone time. I am so happy to be married, but I was singel for twelve years after my first marriage. One or two of my children were home all the time until I married; however, I never allowed them to live off me after college. They paid for space, food and followed the home rules. God bless you dear lady. You learn so much being alone, you can do as you please without offense to anyone, and explore the world on Google. The children need to create families of their own, have you thought of that aspect of it. Be blessed dear lady.

posted by Justi on May 31, 2010 at 9:56 AM | link to this | reply

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ok so you know what it is like to live a lone, and you have probably done it for years.

posted by Lanetay on May 31, 2010 at 9:45 AM | link to this | reply

I live alone and truly enjoy the solitude! I need it to write so it suits me well! sam

posted by sam444 on May 31, 2010 at 9:40 AM | link to this | reply