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posted by
yellowrose55
on July 12, 2010 at 10:12 PM
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Tzippy
Shmuel Zevel, I have now come to so hate the name; it stinks. These devilish men can create a hell of any heaven. It pained my heart all through the read.
posted by
anib
on May 26, 2010 at 10:08 PM
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it makes me want to cry. For such people are out there able to have breath. It is them I wonder why...
posted by
PinkWeaver
on May 26, 2010 at 5:17 PM
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And to think that this is just the foreboding summary of the narrative ahead.....you've whet my appetite!
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on May 26, 2010 at 5:48 AM
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I cannot imagine what it must have felt like to have been trapped with this man!
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on May 25, 2010 at 5:36 PM
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Down through the ages there have been people like that, and there seems to be no end to it. So sad the innocent who happen to get in the way of their evil purpose or moody disposition.
posted by
TAPS.
on May 25, 2010 at 4:26 PM
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Tzippy
And so the evil continues?
posted by
johnmacnab
on May 25, 2010 at 1:23 PM
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OEvil manifests itself in some way love. BC-A, Bill’s RJLst
posted by
BC-A
on May 25, 2010 at 10:29 AM
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that is a harsh and tragic tale
A single person in the wrong place can cause so much harm to so many. Just hope his namesake shares only that with him
posted by
lionreign
on May 25, 2010 at 8:44 AM
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I remember you telling me about this. Tell me, Tzippy, and I mean this in the most serious of ways...did it bring any relief to know that he'd died and left this earth, this man? Some have earned the resentment...and now there are those that look forward to their departure. This is their doing alone. Did it bring you any peace? Certainly unnerving when a child that is kin is named after this man, when you never wanted or needed to hear of that name again. Tell me they didn't really name the kid Shmuel (is that the correct name?)....there's a chance he might get teased at school for that...
posted by
Darson
on May 25, 2010 at 8:04 AM
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we women are our own worst enemy and I have been an expert
Conditioned to believe the patriachal attitudes in most societies we forget our own abilities and allow the horrors to continue. Caast this evil from you and believe that there are men like our friends here who respect us because they respect themselves.
posted by
Kabu
on May 25, 2010 at 7:19 AM
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Very Dickensian
and nightmarish
posted by
cpklapper
on May 25, 2010 at 7:14 AM
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This post
"why he married mother" is a handkerchief soaked with tears. Pure emotion. It certainly underscores the willingness of some men to subjugate women, to treat them as property. I'd like to think it couldn't happen in this era of equality, but I know better. Forget the miserable sumbitch -- he shouldn't get one more second of your time and thought.
posted by
Pat_B
on May 25, 2010 at 6:04 AM
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Tzippy
The relatively detached way you write about all this somehow adds to its poignancy! And it also suggests something I have often thought - that the worst pains are the ones most difficult to describe...
posted by
Nautikos
on May 25, 2010 at 5:26 AM
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wow what a gripping story
posted by
Lanetay
on May 24, 2010 at 11:36 PM
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My goodness, what an awful, awful person to be found. I feel so much for your mom and of course all the children. Thanks for sharing Tzippy and I hope that in doing so you are somewhat freed from the mental torture.
posted by
shobana
on May 24, 2010 at 11:29 PM
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So much pain to have to live with, I'm so sorry for you and your family
I pray you and your family are surrounded by the Light and Love of God with much love and happiness and peace and harmony. Many Blessings skye
posted by
skye08
on May 24, 2010 at 11:23 PM
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I believe he is the epitome of selfishness. So cold hearted! I have great empathy for all the children, and I am amazed he got away with abusing a child unto death. I would quite agree that he may be in Sheol, too! I really don't know your age but if you have an outstanding or unresolved issue I would implore you to see counseling! I never stayed with it and it could be one of the reasons I suffer from migraines. One day out of the blue you could have a major case of PTSS. Just my humble thoughts.
I wanted to answer your questions, too. I am taking medication for migraines, clinical depression and a sleep aid. I really didn't want a sleep aid but my doctor felt I needed more than four hours of sleep each night! I had been meaning to tell you that in answer to your question on "Neath An Eagle's Talon; it was written before I started this new med regime!
I can't help but think that your mother went through an internal hell and just didn't know how to get out! I admire that she had faith in God, I think our reward comes after this life. I don't know your pain, but I know how it can hurt! Peace be with you. sam
posted by
sam444
on May 24, 2010 at 9:10 PM
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That's so horrible.
I don't know how your mother could stay with someone like that. It would have seemed you all may have been better living on the streets than to endure this torture.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on May 24, 2010 at 9:02 PM
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