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Re: There are many things that can happen without you knowing about it
yes and that is something that she should of asked him

posted by Lanetay on May 21, 2010 at 11:45 PM | link to this | reply

There are many things that can happen without you knowing about it
Yesterday on Yahoo Answers I saw a mother asking why her child would be taking aluminum foil to the bathroom with him. She said he takes it in there all the time.

A few people came back saying that it can be used for drugs... like making a makeshift pipe to smoke weed and crack and such. I never ever would have guessed that aluminum foil could be in any way connected with drugs.
I would probably wonder what the hell he was wrapping up in there.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on May 21, 2010 at 11:18 PM | link to this | reply

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I know, but who will be here for me if they are all gone?

posted by Lanetay on May 20, 2010 at 8:47 PM | link to this | reply

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oh wow that is a tough one

posted by Lanetay on May 20, 2010 at 8:47 PM | link to this | reply

No! Your daughter is a grown woman and responsible for her choices! She is the one who forfeited the opportunity! These life lessons can be harsh! Also, she deserves to be booted if she doesn't pull her own weight! It's about tough love! sam

posted by sam444 on May 20, 2010 at 6:30 PM | link to this | reply

If my son smoked marijuana we would both be evicted at once as this apartment complex is a drug-free establishment and narcotic-sniffing dogs are brought in if anyone thinks they smell it.

posted by TAPS. on May 20, 2010 at 6:07 PM | link to this | reply

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I know its just been hard raising her by myself at 42

posted by Lanetay on May 20, 2010 at 4:04 PM | link to this | reply

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yes but I should of known

posted by Lanetay on May 20, 2010 at 4:03 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Oh love I am sorry ...no you are a great Mom loving caring and have just
that is exactly what she says, thanks for the hug

posted by Lanetay on May 20, 2010 at 4:02 PM | link to this | reply

You have no reason to be embarrassed you have no idea how many people are in the same position. It is not a bad mom that kicks her adult kid out of the house because she is living off mom, smoking pot and refusing to grow up. If you want to really be a good mom, really good, kick her out or at least kick her off your cash role, tell her if she is back in the house smoking she will be kicked out. Obviously you won't know if she is smoking or not, have her take test randomly to live with you. Why are parents afraid to be in charge, to raise their kids. She is taking advantage of you and you are letting her, stop it, you are more valuable and so is she than that. I do love you because you are doing the best you can but this won't work.

posted by Justi on May 20, 2010 at 3:31 PM | link to this | reply

No, it does not make you a bad mom. You cannot be with your daughter every waking moment of her life nor should you or anyone be.

 

posted by FormerStudentIntern on May 20, 2010 at 1:46 PM | link to this | reply

Oh love I am sorry ...no you are a great Mom loving caring and have just
been taken advantage of.......you really deserve better respect from the beautiful brat. I just want to give you a big hug and you just remember......it is her decision in her life...not something you have done. She ain't twelve anymore.

posted by Kabu on May 20, 2010 at 10:35 AM | link to this | reply

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I guess she is quit sneaky

posted by Lanetay on May 20, 2010 at 6:53 AM | link to this | reply

No it doesn't make you a bad mom for not knowing. I'm really sorry to hear this and I hope things really work in both your favor lustorlove. Thanks so much for stopping by.

posted by shobana on May 20, 2010 at 12:05 AM | link to this | reply