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I submited one of my ideas to a university professor, I thought my idea was
really brilliant, BUT she tore it to shreds in every way possible.
"Not clear enough, not long enough, not short enough, this is NOT science fiction" etc etc
Than she inlcuded one whole page from the dictionary defining science fiction. i have not picked up that idea since. :(
Point is: I know how you feel, and its only their opinion, and fact is Their opinion is wrong and your opinion is right DONT FORGET THAT
posted by
Tzippy
on April 27, 2010 at 2:15 PM
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whispered, wow.............
I wrote something profound here yesterday and it is gone. I think that I forgot to hit the Add Comment button, hehehehehehh, damn.
posted by
benzinha
on April 26, 2010 at 11:09 PM
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Oh, I could not resist this. Sorry...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QmoYw_6Jueg
It's springtime up here.
posted by
majroj
on April 24, 2010 at 2:09 AM
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I think all judging is subjective and if possible, we should keep ourselves just a little bit aloof from it - easier said than done, I know!
Perhaps your friend is away/has family problems/is busy etc. Maybe leave it a while and try again later?
posted by
Rockingrector_retd
on April 23, 2010 at 2:10 AM
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Azur
Never having submitted anything but academic stuff, where the rules are different, I have no experience with editors, but I hear they tend to be a somewhat capricious and opinionated bunch, and their decisions rarely reflect the value of a work...Just don't give up...
posted by
Nautikos
on April 22, 2010 at 10:25 AM
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It's that female code: it's full of double meanings and slams disguised
as compliments. Subtle little digs and unsaid criticisms are more sharply felt in the aftermath than at the moment, and they seem to hang on long after we ought to dismiss them. There are jealous people who -- like the strategists on "reality" shows -- conspire against the one who's most likely to win. "Interesting" is sometimes code for WTF is wrong with you. I do hope you'll seek another publisher. That petty committee may just have paid you an unintended compliment.
posted by
Pat_B
on April 22, 2010 at 6:01 AM
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Azur
{ For as long as you want. Elyse takes it from there love. BC–A, Bill’s RJLst
posted by
BC-A
on April 21, 2010 at 11:02 PM
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Azur, can you offer this submission to another competition or elsewhere? I mean do they hold the rights? Rejection is part of the process and don't take it personally is all I have to add. You're a great writer.
and as far as your friend...I agree with some, give it time - and space and let them come to grips with what they need and they'll be around for you again, I do hope and trust, (always) Have a wonderful evening ~ Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on April 21, 2010 at 10:11 PM
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Maybe your friend just needs time.
Sometimes we have to let go. Things that are real and meaningful don't go away, so I believe... though they can take more time than we want to give, to develop.
posted by
Ciel
on April 21, 2010 at 8:37 PM
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It's hard sometimes, so many thoughts run through your mind when they don't open that door. I hope you manage to get through that silence Azur.
posted by
shobana
on April 21, 2010 at 8:01 PM
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Maybe your friend is ill or something else? I hope not, but sometimes
that happens or something occurs in a life that prevents the intimacy that once existed...hope it all works out.
posted by
Ariala
on April 21, 2010 at 7:29 PM
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Competitions are subjective...I believe in that book anf sometimes
friendships run their course...even between family members.
posted by
Kabu
on April 21, 2010 at 7:23 PM
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Dear Azur,
Sorry to hear, but you and others who have read it know the quality and effect. I know you can and will forge onward.
About your friend; that is complex - when there is little to no communication, all you can do is listen to the echoes of your instinct.
posted by
Katray2
on April 21, 2010 at 7:16 PM
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Azur, it's a test. Your book was fine. If it had had more depth of character they'd have said it was too dense. It's not you believe me. You are fine. If that friend needs some down time, then occupy yourself for a while and let them come to you. It's all a test. One thing I learned (the hard way after losing so many friends to suicide in this profession) is to take it seriously (life's tests) but not to take it too seriously. Seriously.
posted by
dsm_tchr
on April 21, 2010 at 7:03 PM
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I really don't know what to say about the review! I suspect another opinion is in order! So sorry about the friend. I think, knowing you, it will be until they answer and they will be most appreciative you kept knocking! sam
posted by
sam444
on April 21, 2010 at 6:11 PM
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